Many men are labeled as "unproductive" by others because they are afraid of their wives. Why are men afraid of their wives? On one hand, it is said that men are not afraid of their wives, but rather respect them, so they always unconsciously give in to their wives in life. On the other hand, according to relevant research, men who are afraid of their wives are psychologically healthier and live longer. Why is this?
What do you think of a man who is afraid of his wife? Long ago, a man who was afraid of his wife may have been labeled as "unproductive", but today, a man who is afraid of his wife is an outstanding representative who knows how to respect women. They are both gentle and delicate in personality, and are good at perceiving people's hearts. Being afraid of one's wife is also equivalent to being obedient to one's wife, and being more regular in terms of diet and daily routine. And it will be healthier psychologically.
The deputy director of the psychological counseling department, a psychologist, said that men who are afraid of wives are relatively gentle and delicate, able to respect women, and good at understanding people's hearts. And men who are afraid of their wives are healthier in terms of psychology, diet, daily routines, and exercise. Being afraid of a wife can also lead to fear of health.
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Eating and resting more regularly
Dear husband, come back from work to eat, "married men should often hear such words. Men who are afraid of their wives are generally hesitant to say that they have socialized outside under their sweet 'lewdness', but instead obediently go home to eat the food cooked by the' wife adults'. Compared to the food in restaurants outside, the food at home is cleaner and less oily and salty.
In addition, men who are afraid of their wives also dare not be picky about the carefully cooked meals of their lovely wives and criticize them. Eat some fruit and eat more vegetables. Men who are afraid of their wives are more willing to accept their wives' advice on healthy eating. As a result, men are forced to accept a balanced diet, ensuring a healthy diet. In addition, for unhealthy dietary habits such as smoking and drinking that are repeatedly prohibited. Men who are afraid of their wives are more likely to quit under the guidance of their wives' sweet words.
In addition, men who are afraid of their wives do not have the opportunity or dare not go home too late or stay up at night. They always come home early after work. In this way, men who are afraid of their wives unintentionally establish a healthy schedule of going to bed and getting up early. It avoids going out all day for socializing, socializing, and staying up late for a long time, thus avoiding problems that may cause the body such as endocrine disorders, neurasthenia, headaches, gastrointestinal problems, etc.
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Men exercise more
Exercise is an important factor in maintaining vitality and physical health. Maintaining moderate exercise every day can increase cardiovascular function, improve the heart and blood circulation system, consume calories, and accelerate metabolism. However, under the fast-paced and high-intensity work pressure of modern society, not everyone can spare a few hours a day to activate their muscles and bones and engage in exercise.
Husband, accompany me to go shopping "," Husband, go wash a bowl ". The wife coquettishly enslaved her husband. Some men feel that accompanying their wives to go shopping and helping with household chores is something that undermines their masculinity. However, men who are afraid of their wives, out of respect and love for their wives, will accept their wives' shopping invitations and requests to share household chores. This actually seizes the opportunity to communicate emotions and exercise. In addition, Wang Yanling believes that doing housework for men is also a way to relieve and relax psychological pressure.
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Men are psychologically healthier
Some men feel that they need to bear all the burdens of their family in order to be called men. But in fact, men should not always silently bear pressure. Wife afraid men communicate with their wives in all aspects, compromise and avoid conflicts, often creating a good family atmosphere.
Wang Yanling believes that in today's society, men still assume more socialized roles. During economic crises, many people are overwhelmed and resort to suicide to escape. When the family as a whole is facing a crisis, men know that they are not fighting alone, which greatly reduces their psychological pressure.
Some men worry that if they compromise in the family, it will be a sign of weakness. Worried that his wife will become increasingly superior to him. Regarding this, Wang Yanling smiled and said, "Based on my clinical experience over the past few decades, the efforts and rewards of both men and women in marriage are bidirectional and mutually beneficial. In the family, sometimes the husband comes forward, and sometimes the wife comes forward, which is also conducive to maintaining good family relationships and further maintaining male health
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)