Post Date December, 03 2023
Why do men easily change their minds? Why do extramarital affairs or third parties occur? Women curse "Chen Shimei". Little did he know that cursing "Chen Shimei" would not return to his heart
It is the nature of all human beings to like the new and dislike the old. It is precisely because we like the new and dislike the old that we have new movies, new cultures, new products, new machines, new countries, new systems, new history, new worlds... that the wheels of the era will roll forward. Since it is human nature to like the new and dislike the old, and society is developing rapidly, how can a woman not be eliminated by the times, and how can she keep her husband from changing her heart?
Article 1: We should strengthen our own quality, strengthen our cultural cultivation, and keep up with the pace of the times.
This will keep up with your husband or boyfriend. In modern society, men's values and family values have greatly changed, and a foolish, obedient, open-eyed girl cannot hold a strong man's heart.
From ancient times to the present, I have never heard of a famous dignified and elegant lady of a great family who can gain the exclusive favor of a man. However, Bao Si, Cixi, Daji, Wu Meiniang, Li Shishi, Su Xiaoxiao, Sai Jinhua, and others who make a man want to be immortal and die, are all intelligent, witty, proficient in zither, chess, calligraphy, and painting, and talented. Many public opinion polls have found that what men prefer and need more are intelligent, trendy, and intelligent partners. In modern society, taking care of children, cooking, laundry, and clothing is no longer a wife's job, but has long been replaced by nannies, kindergartens, high-end restaurants, and restaurants.
Article 2: Be fully confident.
Men like confident women. Confidence can make a mediocre face shine. Cultivate and protect your charm. Charm does not come from the face. I oppose using knives and guns in my face. I don't think I'll ever go for cosmetic surgery. Nature and truth are the most beautiful. We only want to carefully protect ourselves. It is possible to slow down aging. "My sister called me from France and told me she wanted to go for a facelift. I immediately told her firmly, 'If you go for a facelift, I won't like you anymore. I like the way you look. Your face doesn't matter at all.'"
Rule 3: Don't lose yourself in love.
This type of woman is most likely to be abandoned by men. They pay the most and lose the most. If you give each other all of your possessions as a gift, they will think it's too easy to come by and will put it aside without pity. "I have many male friends who are divorced or have bad relationships with third parties, and their wives are blameless.". I asked them why? "They said they didn't know. After thinking for a long time, they replied to me, 'Maybe I didn't come after them!'"!
Article 4: Give the other party some freedom and enough space.
It is important for couples to maintain a certain distance. If you suffocate a man, he will hate you. Keep the other person fresh with you. If he stays with you all day long, he will feel dull one day. Let him do his own business, and it's enough to be with you eight hours away or at night.
Article 5: Remember that marriage is only a duty, not a right.
Never hurt a man's self-esteem, always give him face! Many women treat men as their private property after marriage. They often show their faces, throw tables, throw benches, or just keep silent in anger. They often make a lot of noise in front of others, and discipline their husbands in public without the gentleness of a woman. They look like they are using their fingers and anger. The courtesy and gentleness of the initial love affair have disappeared, revealing their true colors. If a man marries you, he doesn't sell him to you. Why should he be angry with others? "All people have good face, especially men. If you don't give him face in public once, you won't be able to make up for it even if you're willing to cook for him for a year later.".
Even if you come home and argue with him again, it's much better than arguing in front of someone. However, it is best not to quarrel, especially over trivial matters. Some matters should be handled until the end, and should not be ignored.
Rule 6: Adapt to the other person, don't try to change the other person.
Remember not to nag. Don't be a broken mouthed woman. Remember that no one is perfect. The rule that one is not perfect is to seek common ground while reserving minor differences, which can eliminate the nagging female disease that annoys all men.
Article 7: Anyone who leaves can live. Don't hang from a tree.
You and your husband, who had never known each other before, became married by accident. The so-called "heaven made a couple" is just an adjective. No couple in the world is born to be made. "If you combine, you will stay together, if you don't, you will separate. There is nothing remarkable about it. Without carrots, you can still make a meal.". The sky cannot fall. The world cannot end. Don't place your hopes on others. Don't put the reins of your destiny in the hands of others. Take control of your own destiny. This way, you won't be at a loss in times of change. Beware of the world and become a mess.
Rule 8: If you do everything you can to lose him, then don't want him.
There is already such a kind of man (including women, of course) in the world, who is naturally narcissistic and plays with the opposite sex to satisfy his personal desires. Such a person is simply not worthy of a family. If you have the misfortune to meet such a person, it is your bad luck. When you think you are unlucky, you should discard all illusions about him and leave him to search for a new life for you. Don't be foolish to wait for him to change his mind and waste your glorious years for him. In this world, first of all, you need to take care of yourself. If you don't take care of yourself, then I have to tell you. No one will take care of you. Don't care too much about age differences. It's not necessary to find a man who is stronger than you. It's better to be intimate with each other when two people are together.
