Post Date December, 03 2023
"I told you about me, and once I swore that I would forget this married man who hurt my heart. But after a year, I haven't forgotten, and my heart is very painful, but I've never called or sent a message to him.".
The previous two months, he called me again. Last month's night, he also called me after drinking too much. My heart became increasingly painful. Thinking about the difficult words he said to me, sometimes when he was about to forget, he would always tease me. Perhaps this is my cheapness. He pulled my phone number to the black list.
Last month, he called me and I didn't receive a call. I called him back, but I didn't know when he had hacked my phone. He said his wife had pulled it, but he actually knew it. When I asked him to pull it out, he also pulled it out. WeChat has hacked me for nine months.
Last night was the anniversary of my acquaintance with him. I had dinner with my friends and suddenly missed him again. I also drank a lot. Gather the courage to call him. Originally, he pulled me black again, and I immediately cried. I took someone else's phone to call him. He said that pulling black was passive, and he said that his wife pulled it. Later, he came to pick me up. The result was that I cried bitterly and bitterly, while my miss was replaced by his saying, "Don't call him after drinking alcohol.". "I showed him my chat background set to his photo, avatar, and the same fish. He said I was really stupid, and he chased me off again..."
"The first time he chased me and dragged me out of the car, he scolded me for being cheap and ruthless. Yesterday, he said that I was really difficult to deal with... I don't know who I should say to. My heart is sad, and I also know that I am cheap, but I can do it without calling him again and sending a message!"! I have been confused and told you a meal, please forgive me!
reply:
1. Not all women are suitable for being a junior, and not all women who are junior are lucky and able to succeed in their positions. After all, it is very rare for a woman like Deng Wendi to succeed.
2. Generally speaking, whether a woman is being taken as a mistress or actively becoming a mistress, the goal of choosing to continue to entangle herself is simply to achieve a good start and a good end, always expecting the man she likes to leave his wife and marry herself. However, countless cruel facts tell us that harboring this beautiful idea and making it a reality is almost a bubble. Because, most men's original intention for finding a mistress is to squander their unwanted desires, satisfy their greed and vanity, and expand their possessive desire.
3. A man can coax you into dating you frequently outside of marriage, but he will never marry you easily, because he knows very well what you mean, the high cost of marrying you, and the various risks faced. When a man wields his lust, he often thinks in the lower part of his body, because all he wants is to play; When choosing a woman to marry him, he will be very rational and serious because he is thinking about living in the future. Based on this, no matter how much you love him, it is impossible to obtain the results you want. Therefore, when you are unlucky enough to become someone else's junior, the smartest choice is to resolutely persuade yourself to cut off the love relationship, and then gracefully roll over and flash away.
4. As far as you are concerned, why did this man scold you for being cheap and drive you out of the car again and again? "Because this man never looked up to you and never loved you, even though you thought you loved him so much, he just regarded you as an optional appetizer.". Men all hope that their lover outside of marriage is just playing with them, rather than taking them seriously. Otherwise, if you take them seriously, they will be scared away because they can't bear it at all. Therefore, only a foolish woman like you can be silly enough to forget him and care about him for nothing. You know, he simply treats you as the object of play and doesn't look down upon you in his bones.
5. The reason why you let yourself fall into such a painful situation is simply because you do not cherish yourself enough. What happiness can a woman who does not understand self-love have? How can I live freely? To this end, it can only be said that all the pain is your own cause. Since you can't afford to play, don't play anymore. In the end, it's yourself who hurts, yourself who suffers, and yourself who hurts.
