Post Date December, 02 2023
What kind of marriage life do men expect
Both men and women have too many fantasies about marriage, hoping that marriage will bring a perfect turning point in their lives. Men and women have different expectations for marriage. When you marry a man, please first think about what kind of marriage they want and how far your expectations differ.
I have heard and seen a lot about the marriage incident, but there are very few stories like this that evoke strong sympathy for the protagonist. Men have no fewer fantasies about marriage than women in terms of quantity. It's just that men are always clumsy at expressing themselves, so on the surface, they only hope their wives are beautiful and wise. The actual situation is not like this.
Firstly, talking about friends and getting married are the most important events in a man's life history, as this means that his attachment to his mother has clearly shifted to another opposite sex. But this transformation does not occur overnight, it requires a long or short process. During this process, he still had countless emotional connections with his mother. This makes him subconsciously choose his girlfriend and lifelong partner based on his mother's external and internal image.
We won't talk about the similarity to the external image of our mother. The inner image refers to the mother's attitude towards her child, including love, patience, tolerance, gentleness, and even indulgence. Men's yearning for these emotions far exceeds their seemingly strong desire to achieve success. A young mother who had just given birth to a son once said, 'I have two sons now, one is breastfeeding in my arms and the other is my husband.'. Such women can make all men in the world fall in love without exception.
Secondly, men need a fixed sexual partner to alleviate the pressure and anxiety caused by sexual impulses. This is driven by genes and hormones, and is also necessary for the survival of the race. A good wife must first be a good sexual partner.
Thirdly, he needs an admirer. In the outside world, a man's glory and authority may be challenged by other same-sex people at any time. He sometimes wins and sometimes loses; Sometimes confidence, sometimes inferiority. This uncertainty will seriously affect his entire mentality. So at home, in this small world where he is only an adult male, he needs a certain sense of authority, or rather someone who admires him. Many men choose to marry someone with weaker personality and abilities among numerous girlfriends, which is why.
Fourthly, men also need non physical, that is, pure spiritual communication. Many women believe that men only know about sex without understanding emotions, which is a huge misunderstanding. When a man is away, the psychological pressure, although invisible, is immense. Without appropriate ways to relieve these pressures, he may experience a mental breakdown every minute.
There is no exaggeration in saying so. Just thinking about how many tons of alcohol men consume every day in this world, one can understand how important the word 'relaxation' is for men. The best way to relieve stress is of course to communicate with others. The most convenient way to communicate is of course to have a conversation with your wife. But if his wife cannot understand him, then it is entirely reasonable for him to call friends, drink and gamble, or even stay up all night. Every wife who complains about her husband's late return should think about the reason for his late return: is it because he thinks friends or alcohol are more important than you, or because there is a lack of communication between you?
