Post Date December, 03 2023
There are thousands of men who may become a good husband for a woman.
When this sentence came out of the mouth of a lawyer's girlfriend, I sat opposite and almost slid from the chair to the ground.
Don't be so fussy. This can also be said to men in turn, there are thousands of women who can be your good wives. You know, I don't mean that people can do everything. Both education and occupation make me unable to say such silly words. I am aiming at the "only" that writers often advocate in their works, which is so innovative. Girlfriend is talking.
There is no one. The only lies.
Look around, what is the only one? The sun? There are countless suns in the universe. The ones bigger and brighter than it are numerous in Ganges. Fingerprints? Fingerprints are the same, although in theory, it is only among billions of people. Fortunately, we don't need to be so precise to find a husband rather than a criminal. There are many things in the world that are too precise and harmful. Companion is basically a fuzzy math problem, and you must be careless when it comes to carelessness.
There is a famous saying that is very harmful. It is called: every green leaf is different. I believe that under the electron microscope of scientists, there will be a big difference between leaves. But in the eyes of ordinary people, they are really similar. If we have to look at basically the same things very differently, it is because we are neurotic and mystifying.
Marriage is a common problem for ordinary people. Don't artificially complicate it. The person who is suitable to be your husband is by no means unique. Just as we are ordinary women who have existed for a long time, those ordinary men have lived on the earth for many years. We are not only a person, but also a type. Like people who like dumplings, most of us also love dumplings and pies. Science has long proved that onions and carrots are congenial and will become good friends. Soybean and castor are naturally peaceful. Roses and lilies are planted together, each with luxuriant flowers and green branches. But kale and celery are antagonistic to each other. Cloves and daffodils are incompatible with water and fire. Tulip will simply kill the grass... If you are a rose, you will basically be happy as long as you soberly and firmly find one of the lilies.
Of course, although the absolute number of a certain type of people is quite large, the earth is large and people are walking around. Whether we can meet a specific suitable partner at a specific time is not too optimistic.
Believe that you are the only one who is doomed to stumble and seek in the vast sea of people, like a boat trying to catch a trout with unknown potential, waiting for you are countless thirsty dawn and sleepless moon night.
Holding on to the only wish often makes women have the idea of assembling boyfriends and husbands. Appearance is a very important chip and naturally ranks first. In addition, this one has a high degree, that one has a good family, another has a gentle temper, and another has a successful career... How wonderful it is for women to break down men and cut off their best parts, and glue them into a beautiful new man with the above parts by women's delicate hands!
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
