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My little uncle broke into my room in the middle of the night when my husband was not at home
Hello, I have a problem. I want to ask you for help. One night the other day, it was already more than 11pm. My husband didn't come back from other places. A little uncle of mine broke into my room while I was sleeping. Originally, the door of my room was actually locked inside, but my uncle just broke the lock and entered my room. It was also that the lock was not strong. We work in the same place. My parents-in-law and uncle live in the same yard, but not in the same room.
After entering my room, my uncle said he wanted to chat with me. He also said that he could not control himself. Then, I said that I had nothing to talk with you. I said you should go quickly. I am your sister-in-law, and you should respect me. I kicked him out, but he didn't want to go. I saw him not going, so I pretended to take paper to go to the toilet. Then, when he saw me taking paper, he had a physical conflict with me. He held my arm to keep me from going, so I struggled hard. He saw me struggling hard and threw me away, but he still stayed in my room for about half an hour. Later, when he saw that there was a pair of scissors in my room, he took it up and cut it on his wrist to threaten me to comply. What do you want to do? If you do this again, I will call the police!
He looked at me and then he left, but until the end, nothing happened to us. I just don't know whether I should tell my husband about this? If you tell him, will he believe it? What if my husband and uncle say I seduce him? Will my husband still believe my innocence?
reply:
1. It's really easy to have extreme affairs between uncle and sister-in-law. This kind of thing has been happening since ancient times, which is against the ethics. Your little uncle broke into your door in the middle of the night, and it was really surprising to do what he wanted. Well, you are safe from danger, and have not caused any disaster or domestic disgrace, so you should feel lucky.
2. In order to prevent such things from happening again, you must pay attention to avoiding the problems existing in the communication between you and your uncle, including paying attention to your own words and deeds, staying alone with him as little as possible, and paying attention to the proper and proper clothes and manners. Of course, after this incident, your uncle's ambition did not succeed, and he will not easily attack again in the future.
3. About whether you should expose your uncle's misdeeds to your husband? Personally, you'd better not expose him for the time being. You need to further observe his next reaction. If he is just impulsive and confused, and then he will always feel guilty and repentant when he sees you again, then you don't have to tear off his last mask. First, leave him some feelings and let him reflect on himself, so as not to irritate him and make him do irrational things; Second, try not to stir up trouble and create conflicts between husband and brother-in-law, including some unnecessary suspicion between your husband and wife.
4. Of course, from now on, you and your uncle can continue to maintain a harmonious relationship on the surface, how to speak and how to speak, but in private, you must pay attention to prevent your uncle from continuing to misbehave against you. I think that since you are innocent, there is no need to make yourself too nervous. After all, there is no improper behavior between you and your uncle. If you really feel that this matter is difficult to hold in your heart, and you are also afraid, I suggest you find an appropriate time when your husband and uncle are together, and make up a story tactfully in front of your uncle, and tell your husband what happened between you and uncle to others, so that you can not only remind him of this, but also point at him, so that he can avoid his own plot in the future.