What kind of woman is suitable for being a lover and what kind of woman is suitable for being a wife. Let's take a closer look.
Quality 1: No understanding of romance
The overly romantic complex doomed this woman to be unsuitable for marriage. Romance can be said to be an indispensable element in love, but marriage can never be the stage for romance, at least for most people. Romance can be said to be the protagonist in love, but in marriage, its role cannot be too heavy. A romantic marriage is like a cherry blossom, brilliant time is fleeting. Marriage is built on the foundation of love, but marriage must face reality and life. With too much romance, you cannot go far on this thorny road.
Quality 2: Loyalty is harsh to the ear
Between lovers, emotional tone is the most important, so if there is any harm to emotional tone, lovers will not speak. Only a woman who is full of harsh advice is suitable for being your wife. Women may always love to listen to good words, but men must learn to listen to advice, because in this marriage process, a wife who will truly give advice will shine on you like a mirror, allowing you to constantly move forward in correction. The one who will walk down with you is this person who is really, maybe sometimes annoying to you.
Quality Three Garlic Peel
A woman who indulges in trivial matters is terrifying, but at the same time, it is also reliable. At least to point out, she will manage the small details of your life well. For ordinary people, trivial things in life are inevitable, and men are not born with such trivial things. If a man is addicted to trivial things, it will be very painful.
So, a wife who knows how to manage a family is very precious. However, then again, this trivial woman is not suitable for being a lover, so there is inevitably a lack of emotional appeal in marriage. So, it is necessary for wives to learn from their lovers to learn their emotions and master their skills to control them.
Quality Four is not afraid of hardship
Being a lover, of course, cannot be too shabby. Platonic love does not exist, and Platonic lovers are also rare. So, in a general sense, lovers need material care. Because maintaining relationships between lovers inevitably requires some objective material support. It is difficult for people without any luxury complex to portray the role of a good lover.
So, those who advocate luxury cannot be wives, they can only be lovers. This is the fundamental reason why many women nowadays simply do not marry and specialize in being lovers. Because they cannot overcome the luxury complex on themselves. Only a wife can follow you steadfastly, regardless of poverty or wealth.
(Intern Editor: Liu Ruichang)