My relationship with my wife is very good. My wife is beautiful, and my baby son is very cute when he is four years old. I have been immersed in happiness. But recently I'm more and more worried about my beautiful wife
Because one day his wife laughed and joked with him:
"There is a male colleague who likes women very much at ordinary times. He always likes to find a woman to tell a dirty joke or something. Sometimes he always harasses me when he has nothing to do. Is it annoying or annoying?"
He immediately became nervous and asked, "How did your colleague harass you? Do you want me to repair him?"
"He just called to send a short message and said some warm words. He likes you, you are beautiful, you have a good temperament, and he wants to have a one-night stand..." Although his wife said, she looked like nothing:
"I don't reply to the news, and ignore him. Don't worry, I won't have anything to do with him."
However, after that, occasionally his wife would look at the text message on his mobile phone and laugh for no reason. He wanted to see the content of the text message, and his wife deleted it. She said it was nothing, but she seemed to enjoy the process when she saw the boring text message. The man was very upset and wanted to find the other party to explain and warn him, but his wife always said that he was too fussy. Colleagues looked up and looked down, and did not want to have a bad relationship. For a moment, he didn't know how to handle the relationship?
Marriage and family need to be managed. There is a need for trust, accommodation and communication between husband and wife. The most difficult thing in the world is for one person to get the heart of another person and get the heart of that person, which means that person trusts me. Trust always comes from ordinary communication. Communication is a kind of empathy, which comes from emotions. Emotions should be given to sincerity. Trust, communication, empathy and emotion are built on the basis of long-term accumulation.
True and complete love does not hurt others, nor does it hurt itself. It should be a kind of gentle and compassionate existence. And desire will be transformed into various forms of injury, or jealousy, or possession, and then everything will be lost in the gain. Love can heal the wounds of desire, but desire keeps us away from the original intention of love. This matter actually depends entirely on the wife's desire. Why does she enjoy the process? Is it from a man other than her husband who feels a kind of novelty and excitement that has never been before, or does she like to listen to sweet words? Like to use this male colleague to intentionally show her charm to her husband? It is better to have evidence of harassment by male colleagues, such as QQ chat records or ambiguous text messages.
Give three suggestions:
First, the wife's attitude is very important. It's better to have a good talk with your wife. If your wife also thinks it doesn't matter, no one else can help. If the wife's attitude is firm and refuses the harassment of the male colleague, the male colleague has no opportunity to take advantage of it;
Second, you can call directly to remind or warn the male colleague; Then you don't need to visit the man and talk to him directly to see what the idea is. It's not too much to beat him if you think too much. Sometimes you can't clap your hand. Why does your wife do this? Does it have anything to do with you? Is it because you are too busy to neglect her? Sometimes when the husband calls his wife appropriately, even for the purpose of paying the duty, she will feel warm in her heart. We must find out the reason from ourselves first.
The third is the best policy. If other methods are really useless, if necessary, they can be dealt with by unit leaders.
Of course, the second and third methods are better to act when the communication with the wife is fruitless and the refusal is fruitless. After all, maintaining a happy home is the most important. Take care of your wife carefully, but not too obvious. Don't let her see that you are still obsessed with this little thing. That's not what a wise man should have! Let your wife know from your attitude that you are a real tall man! Let her feel that she is completely relaxed with you and has no psychological burden. Let her know that all her mistakes can be corrected and can be forgiven by you!
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)