I married a businessman. But he doesn't go home more than ten times a month. Especially at night, I am not at home at all.
Besides, he doesn't talk to me. Every time I want to talk to him, he is always annoyed. Is it necessary for our marriage to continue?
He is a very flirtatious man, and cheating is not once or twice. Every time he has reasons and excuses for not going home. Always told me to accompany customers. Because there is a lovely son between us, I have always been patient, hoping that he will return to his heart and understand, ask experts to give me a suggestion. Is such a man saved?
Ms. Shen:
Hello!
First of all, straighten out your own mentality and clarify your bottom line. Everyone has their own principles, and the constant tolerance will only lead to faster loss, and give men a little pressure appropriately.
Many women may not have their own life after marriage as they did before marriage. They seldom care about themselves because of the complexity of life. For example, you find your husband unfaithful. Then stay calm and respond to all changes with constancy. First try to treat him as if he were in love, and let him get back to his former feelings, such as your consideration, mainly to let him realize that this family can't do without you. You can hint at him, his little actions, but don't be too serious, and make him nervous, but you look like you don't know. Then you still treat him well as before, and he will feel ashamed and sorry for you.
Generally, when this happens, calm and thoughtful women. It's easier to let your man keep in love.
Finally, these are all on the premise that he loves you. If he has no feelings for you, it is meaningless to do anything. Because marriage requires the existence of emotions, as well as trust, understanding, tolerance, and so on.