Post Date December, 03 2023
Many male friends are often very picky when choosing their partner. Most men do not choose their colleagues or superiors, and tend to prefer their work assistants. In fact, when male friends choose their partner, they will consider many factors. What factors will men consider when choosing their partner? Let's take a look at this topic together. May be helpful to you.
1. The Past of Women
No matter how society develops and how open the social atmosphere is, when it comes to women's sexual experience, men are still deeply concerned. Men care about a woman's past when they marry. This past is not about how many love experiences a woman has had, but whether a woman is a virgin. If not, men want to know how many men a woman has had before them.
In the final analysis, men's virginity complex is still deeply rooted, while in life, men are accustomed to trying out sex before marriage, and can also take no responsibility for their own behavior. It's a contradiction to be strict with your future wife. So women, it's better to be smart. Before marriage, don't trust a man's mouth too much. You don't mind if a man is not a virgin, but he probably does.
2. Motivation of Love
The older you are, the longer you spend rolling around in society, and the less pure your desire for love is as when you were young. Especially for men who already had a house, a car, and superior financial conditions before marriage, they may even doubt whether women have a purpose in loving themselves. They want each other to fall in love because they love him, not because of his qualifications. Therefore, when he has the idea of getting married, he needs to consider this issue.
Women should remember that if they fall in love with a man with better material conditions, they must not express their desire for money too clearly.
3. Family conditions
Women care about men's family conditions, but men also care. When a group of young people are together, they always discuss the family conditions of their girlfriends, and the most favored condition for men is definitely the condition of power and power. Modern society is a cruel society, and having power and power can definitely save him a few years of struggle. In addition, female parents have stable jobs, the youngest ranking, or have a younger sister rather than a younger brother. Because men also don't want to help their parents bear the responsibility of brother-in-law, even the cost of buying a house, after getting married.
The most unacceptable female family environment for men is that their parents are not in good health, and they do not have a stable job. Men with insufficient sense of responsibility may even break up for this, let alone get married.
4. Physical condition
"Men have different criteria for choosing a girlfriend than for choosing a wife. A girlfriend can be a sexy and heavily dressed woman, but when it comes to marriage, it's not the best choice.".
Men feel that women who are too beautiful will face more temptations due to their lack of self-confidence and fear of being hooded after marriage. Men prefer ordinary looking women. In terms of height, men generally prefer a tall figure, and they will also consider the height of the next generation.
5. Relationship with one's own parents
The issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult issue to thoroughly solve. Nowadays, many men also attach great importance to the relationship between their girlfriends and their parents before marriage. If there are already many problems and they cannot obtain the love of their mother-in-law when they fall in love, basically, men will also rationally end the relationship. Because they also worry about the impact of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships on family harmony after marriage.
6. Women's jobs
Men usually don't have much demand for women's work ability, even if they just feel like they have a legitimate and stable income. But don't assume they don't mind the nature of your job at all.
First of all, the vast majority of men do not choose strong women or women who are higher than themselves. This is due to men's self-esteem.
Secondly, men also don't like secretaries very much. In their eyes, most secretaries have an inexplicable relationship with their boss; Men also don't like women who work in nightclubs, as there are many temptations and opportunities for cheating.
"What factors do men consider when choosing a partner?" After reading the summary of several aspects of the above article, you must have understood this issue. In fact, the most ideal marriage target for men is a stable job and can give them face. In fact, men are also very realistic.
