Blind dates are many ways to make friends nowadays, but blind dates are awkward, and it's uncomfortable for two people who don't know each other to sit there. However, a blind date has the advantage that the matchmaker has explained both sides of the situation, and there is no need to introduce anything. Of course, many blind date friends are rushing to get married. So, when dating, what factors do boys generally consider about women? Interested friends can follow the editor to learn more!!
Face, figure
Everyone has a heart for beauty, and women can't help but stop and take a look at a warm man, not to mention the male compatriots of the Natural Appearance Association. The meaning of this phrase "I love you because you have a beautiful heart" is: If you have a beautiful appearance, then talk about the beauty of your soul. Face and figure are absolutely an indispensable criterion for measuring a woman's temperament. Xiao S once said, "No matter how kind you are, you are also a fat person." Sisters, take your face and figure seriously.
Work situation of the woman
Nowadays, with social pressure so high, men, like women, expect their partners to have stable jobs and good incomes. In the past 20 years, women's work situation has become a very important aspect for men when choosing a spouse. Women with stable jobs and incomes are more likely to be favored by men.
Views on marriage
Men don't get married easily, and of course they don't get divorced easily. Therefore, when making a blind date, they will pay special attention to the woman's views on marriage, such as whether family is the most important thing, and whether filial piety to the elderly should be done. This is directly related to whether you get along well after marriage. Men, who are naturally afraid of trouble, do not want to find each other unsuitable only after marriage.
Does the personality match
The reason why many people break up is that they have different personalities. Indeed, it is too difficult for two people with incompatible personalities to live their entire lives. Many male friends around me rank among the top three in terms of personality fit when choosing their partner. From this, it can be seen that whether personality fit is too important.
Behavior
A person's words and behavior can indirectly reveal her family education. Men all want to find a generous and decent woman, and their words and behavior are scrupulous about each other's feelings. Only living with such a woman can be comfortable and life can go on. In short, details determine success or failure. Your usual accomplishments are reflected in your words and behavior during blind dates. Women should pay attention to them.
In fact, everyone has their own fatal weaknesses, and the most important thing to communicate with others is to learn to grasp this crucial point. Teach you how to hit a man's emotional dead spot? So where is the emotional death of men? Or what is a man's emotional deadend? This requires a return to the physiological nature of men, who, due to the catalytic action of androgens, are inherently endowed with a heroic so-called masculinity, and therefore need to be praised and worshipped, and the emotional death of men is also here.
Of course, men also want to be cared for and cared for by women, but women's care for men tends to be very easy to control, and excessive care has become a constraint on men's freedom, which precisely violates the freedom that men want in their bones. Therefore, caring for a man may not necessarily win a man's heart, and may even provoke a man's arrogance and disdain for women. "If a woman shows admiration for a man and often praises him, then he will definitely fall in love with the woman with all her heart, because what a man needs most is the sense of being praised and admired as a hero.". Praise and adoration are the most powerful ways to ignite a man's love and protect a woman's compassion. A man most needs a woman who can praise him when he succeeds or fails.