Post Date December, 03 2023
What do men and women think when facing marital setbacks? From the perspective of mental health, when men and women face marital setbacks, their thoughts may differ. Let's make a specific analysis.
Men are a cowardly animal. They don't want to be alone. When marriage encounters setbacks, their first thought is to cheat rather than divorce
First of all, men are a lonely and cowardly animal. They don't want to be alone. "Because they have been unaccustomed to housework since childhood, divorce means being alone and life can be extremely inconvenient. For this reason, they refuse to divorce.".
Secondly, because men have a strong sexual desire when they are young, losing a woman who maintains a stable relationship can be a deadly blow to them. Therefore, even if there is no relationship with current women, as long as they do not find their next lover, they will not make up their minds to divorce.
This is a unique behavior pattern for men. Even if love is no longer there or has long been indifferent, they often casually woo each other. Even if they really have the idea of a divorce, they won't initiate a divorce until they find a next replacement. Thirdly, men are accustomed to using escape methods to face pressure, cheating, and quickly escaping to the arms of another woman is a way for them to relieve their own pressure. This is one reason why we see far more men cheating than women.
"Women often prefer to be broken rather than broken. When marriage encounters setbacks, the first thing that comes to mind is divorce."
Many wives would rather leave that house than have a dull day. When a woman marries a man, her greater hope is to lead a happy and stable life. If a man cannot give her, a woman naturally has a strong desire to leave. Therefore, relying on divorce to solve problems has become the first choice for female friends. In addition, women cannot tolerate bad emotions, and the way to end bad emotions is to end marriage.
To sum up, when marriage is facing setbacks, the first thing men think about is finding a mistress and having an extramarital affair, rather than trying to solve the problems in marriage. Women think of divorce, but like men, they are not willing to solve problems. Whether it's cheating or divorce, it's not the best practice.
