Before the wife became pregnant
My wife has a very good figure, slim and symmetrical, although not considered beautiful, she is full of feminine charm. Whenever we go on the street with her, the cyclists who pass us from behind always turn their heads to take a look. At this moment, I feel a sense of pride in my heart. Look at my wife's figure.
After the wife became pregnant
Everything has changed since my wife became pregnant with a child. During pregnancy, it goes without saying that one's belly is getting bigger day by day, and if one has a large belly, there is no body shape to speak of. During that time, I was a bit frustrated, although I understood that this was an essential stage in life. Later, I heard from a female colleague at work that women will become more beautiful after giving birth. I felt a hint of comfort and expectation in my heart, thinking that when she returns to her original state after giving birth, my water snake waist will come back.
During childbirth, due to an incorrect fetal position, only a cesarean section could be performed, resulting in an extra scar on the abdomen. Later on, there was not enough milk, so the doctor prescribed some formulas and asked her to quickly supplement her nutrition. So the family bought supplements such as peanuts, pig trotters, chicken and duck, and stewed them for her to eat. At first, she was a bit tired, but after eating a few meals, her appetite blossomed and she let go of it.
The baby has plenty of milk and is growing stronger, but I have also noticed that her figure is not only not losing weight with the birth of the child, but also developing horizontally. I wanted to remind her to eat less and pay attention to her figure, but when I thought she was doing this for the sake of the child, I couldn't say anything.
Two or three months later, we had a few months of missing each other, and everyone was a bit eager, but there was no longer the same feeling as before. Because I touched a body that was not sexy, with delicate and smooth skin, but rather a bloated and bloated body, especially her belly, with obvious scars from cesarean section. How can this feeling bring me up to "sexual" interest? That night, although she was still full of ideas, I wished I had finished it earlier.
The child grew up day by day, and we slowly added some complementary foods to him. After six months, he finally completely weaned. I think there's no need to breastfeed the child, my wife should go on a diet to lose weight. She also felt distressed by her increasingly overweight figure and dared not indulge in extravagance. But within two days, she was so hungry that she couldn't bear it and made some delicious food to wolf down. What can I say? After all, appetite is the top desire in life, and sexual desire is also ranked second.
In the past, my wife was a ladylike type, conservative and reserved before marriage, with most of it being hugs and kisses, and never letting me step into the restricted area. Although she had sex after marriage, she was also very shy, shy, and even somewhat reluctant. I am always in a passive defense before my active attack. But all of this has changed since she gave birth, like a "snake" waking up from hibernation, becoming proactive and abnormal in sexual life, very concerned about her feelings. She often asked me to do it the way she liked, which was understandable, but her obesity affected all my feelings.
It is said that men are visual animals, from turning on the light, to closing my eyes with the light on, to being completely in the dark, the truth of this statement can be seen. I was very passive throughout the entire process, feeling that others were making fun of me, without any sense of male conquest or achievement. I once communicated with her and advised her to go on a diet, strengthen exercise and try to lose weight. She also realized the seriousness of the problem, but she could not change it. She could not reduce her appetite. She went to aerobics several times and came back tired. She looked like she was going to fall apart and would never go again. Finally, it was so serious that she was unwilling to go out and walk or ride a bike.
At night, I had to face her fat body of Mount Taishan. Over time, a feeling of disgust filled my married life. So I always find excuses to evade her requests, and sometimes even proactively apply for business trips to hide from her outside. Although we have been married for ten years, our relationship with her has become increasingly distant, and we can only live in a daze like this.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)