Post Date December, 03 2023
Cohabitation, premarital trial, now casually shuttle around you, some people strongly oppose such behavior, some people take it for granted. We can't say for sure who is right and who is wrong, because even though the men and women in cohabitation have different ideas, especially when it comes to gender issues, they all insist on their own opinions. Let's follow the editor to understand the man's cohabitation psychology.
1. Prepare for sexual harmony after marriage
Marriage is likely to be a lifelong affair. Men don't want to solve their own physical problems every day after marriage, and women don't want to be widowed all their lives. A harmonious sex life can make marriage more happy and happy, and one of them has problems that lead to disharmonious sex life will inevitably lead to extramarital affairs and other phenomena. Therefore, many men require to cohabit before marriage and hope to test during cohabitation. They are preparing for sexual harmony after marriage.
2. Trial marriage
Now everything is popular, including trial marriage and divorce. The main reason is that people are used to wearing a mask in communication. When you are in love, you will show your best in front of each other. It is said that it is easy to fall in love but difficult to live in love. Many lovers in love often have many problems after marriage, such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, housework, bad habits, etc., which will lead to the death of marriage. For this reason, many men ask to cohabit before marriage to see if women in real life can get along well with their families and share housework with themselves... This is the origin of trial marriage.
3. Identify whether the other party is a virgin
In modern society, there are many men who have a virgin complex. They all want to marry a virgin. Based on this complex, to ensure that they can find a virgin to go home, some men will try their best to "try it out" despite the repeated opposition and rejection of the woman. So part of the reason why men ask for cohabitation is that they want to identify whether the other party is a virgin.
If you try to find that the other party is a virgin, then everyone will be happy and dispel your worries before marriage; If you try not to be a virgin, you can plan again, or even avoid breaking up. In short, they are not allowed to take any risk to marry a non-virgin home. The more open society is, the fewer virgins are, the more they want to take this "reassuring pill".
In fact, even as we can see above, we can't absolutely say that this idea is right or wrong, because the social development is too fast, and things that were previously considered prohibited are now normal. For cohabitation, no matter what kind of mentality, or hope that each other should think twice and think more, because everything that happens after cohabitation still needs to be borne by themselves.
