You can see that there are many girls who have been hurt many times in love. The reason why they have been hurt so many times in love is mainly because they can't jump out of these women's minds. In love, what are the terrible women's thoughts?
1. Women's thinking: love is the whole of life.
Men's thinking: love only accounts for 30%, and the rest 70% needs to be allocated to family, career and interests.
Most women have been longing for love since they were sensible. Looking forward to the appearance and character of lovers, and looking forward to every possible plot of the story, so when love really comes, they are always excited, like the first perfect ideal of life, and fall into a strange formula: lovers+love=life.
Brick house slapping bricks: people who pay everything for love at the age of 18 can use "young and frivolous" as a mask. People who are still influenced by love at the age of 25, oh! Please forgive me for understanding that the left brain is not fully developed. In real life, there are not only sweet chocolates, beautiful roses, but also appalling house prices, and the soaring soy sauce and vinegar tea; Elderly parents and their soaring high blood pressure. Live for love, die for love, be together every day? What useful social value can be created by being bored together all day, girl? The hero in the idol drama will give out a strong obscene smell when he gets tired of saying "I love you" every day when he gets rid of the standard configuration of the famous building and luxury car.
2. Women think: "breaking up" is just my threat.
Men think: saying "break up" is really over.
90% of girls like to use the word "break up" to measure men's sincerity towards themselves. When a man is late for a date and forgets his anniversary, he is on a whim to make a short temper. A neat "break up!" will make a man feel at a loss. Whether he knelt down in tears and begged for mercy, or pulled himself a kiss to keep silent, women who had been bored for a long time felt the stimulation of transforming into an idol drama. I can't believe the sour feeling of being loved when it is full; The spark of love lit by tears is beyond words. So women have nothing to say "break up", again and again.
Brick family claps bricks: break up! This refreshing charm of uninteresting love completely satisfies the fantasy of women as protagonists in life. Tears, heartache, flowers after the event, and a word of parting awaken these props. Women play romantic movies with gusto, while men play thrillers in confusion. The heart can bear three or two times, periodic replay? You are still measuring the score of the man's performance this time. He has long been unable to bear the sense of panic and ended the horror story in time. The man is so serious about the word "break up". When he is too lazy to hold on, he will take the initiative to say goodbye. Girl, you really have no chance to sing.