In this world, there are always some people who are too self-willed to be sniffed at. The reason for this is that they never obey the rules and never have rules when doing things. It is precisely these people who have reversed people's right and wrong views and values. But in any case, as a young man, even if you dig the wall, you should know what are the bottom lines you should follow?
First of all, you can't get the other party through despicable means
How can we be justified? If you really want to dig the wall, it means you love each other. If you love each other, you should respect each other. Don't force others, but let them like you willingly. Maybe your rival is luckier than you, and in love, he arrives earlier than you. But you should understand that love is what you pursue. If you have the ability, you can pursue it by yourself, instead of hurting each other. Even so, you won't be happy if you get it. Therefore, if you want to dig the foot of the wall, you can dig the foot of the wall in the way of loving the other party, but can't hurt the other party at will.
Second: If the other party doesn't like you, don't pester
If the other party doesn't like you, but feels very happy with the love object chosen by others. Don't pester yourself. Because if you love each other, you must like each other's happiness. If the other party feels that it is not happy to leave their lover and be with you, then it is meaningless for you to dig the wall. The greatest meaning of love is not to possess, but to be able to resonate in spirit. If the other party doesn't like you, don't pester.
Again: If the other party has a family and children, you should be careful
If you have a family and children, you should be careful, because there are some problems in marriage. You can't guarantee that the other party will be happy with you after divorce. With children, what children need is the love of their parents. If the other party leaves their spouse because of you, you will have to bear more talents. If you want to make each other happy, you'd better stay away from each other. If the other party is unhappy, you can have the possibility of digging the wall. Therefore, you must judge whether the other party is really happy.
Finally, we should respect each other's inner feelings
How much love in history can have good results, but it leaves too many regrets. The reason is that both parties really love each other. If you really love each other, you will consider for each other. You care about each other very much, but you care more about what they care about. This is love in love. When you know how to love others, you will understand how profound it is to get along with each other. Only by understanding how to respect each other's inner feelings can we get along well with each other. In this life, you don't really want to possess love. Sometimes you stand too far away and love has already been possessed.
Digging the wall requires you to adjust your mind. If you really love each other, you should know how to abide by some inner bottom lines, and learn to consider the real situation of the other party. The greatness of love lies in selflessness and dedication. If you know how to abide by some bottom lines, even if you can't get the love of the other party, you will certainly live in the memory of the other party. Since you can't get the other party, just be the blooming flowers in the other party's heart!