The happiness of marriage requires us to create many miracles. Men are not only concerned about their own health and health, but also very interested in male emotions. The reason is that many families are originally very happy now, but because they do not know how to protect marriage towards the end of breakup, do you know how to defend marriage?
How to defend marriage is a very complex matter, desire is necessary, and desire is not equivalent to love. Desire is controlled by chemicals secreted in the brain, which is simple and clear. But if sexual activity is only for sexual needs, it is also a dangerous thing, because at this time, the levels of oxytocin and vasopressin in the body will be too high, causing harm to health. Moreover, these chemicals can create a strong sense of dependence, but if the other person is not a suitable partner, it's bad.
If our infatuation with each other persists forever, then love will always exist. Romantic love involves chemicals that are different from the first force. The professor believes that romantic love produces a chemical called dopamine, which can lead to excessive emotional attachment to sexual partners. From an evolutionary perspective, this natural obsession encourages both males and females to stay together and spend their pregnancy together. A survey shows that people in a period of infatuation spend more than 90% of their time thinking about their partner.
Many marriages are unfortunately caused by the disappearance of love, and romantic love between couples gradually fades over time. There may be two reasons for this: firstly, the nerve endings of the brain are constantly under high levels of stimulation, gradually becoming numb; Secondly, the secretion level of brain chemicals gradually decreases. Regardless of the cause, enthusiasm generally cools down after two to three years.
How to defend marriage is both a knowledge and a skill, and everyone's lifestyle habits and ways of communicating emotions are different. Therefore, how men defend marriage should also be based on their own family. These two points are the foundation of defending marriage, which is very helpful for us to maintain the happiness of marriage.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)