Post Date December, 03 2023
Even a novice artist knows the phrase 'not being familiar with', but when applied to their duties, they need to be carefully considered. The opposite conclusion can be drawn about the extreme aspects of men and women's compensation for the same issue. During the dating process, the psychological feelings of men and women are extremely different. From the beginning of the date to the gradual correct influence, the posture displayed is also vastly different. Do you know what men are whispering in their minds when dating?
Falling in love with you at first sight
With the advancement of technology, we should have more time to fall in love, but truly, urban men and women not only have to work longer hours, but the distance between their place of residence and workplace is also becoming increasingly distant. Some surveys even suggest that the time allowed for them to adapt and act freely every day is no more than 22.3 minutes. The middle woman must wear the correct clothes in 21.2 minutes; Men must take 18.7 minutes to tidy their hair and shave. Indeed, the leisure time leaves for 1.1 minutes and 3.6 minutes. Of course, the above arguments are somewhat exaggerated, but you have to assume that dating is a time-consuming thing.
In order to increase the hit rate, 57% of men introduced and experienced their partners through social media, 31% met at bars or parties, and 12% chose to date and work with comrades. Once a man seeks to be close to a woman, many will actively invite their partner. It's not difficult to complete this step, but if you don't look ahead or have high self-esteem, you should be able to complete it in a lazy state of mind.
72% of men set their first date at a restaurant and then watch a movie; 27% of people go hiking or prepare, while the remaining 1% think of unexpected paths. For men, it's crucial to have a strange first date, and there are not many who hold a relaxed mindset. If his first invitation is rejected, he will lose his faith and make a generous offer to change a woman to try his luck. It's absurd to think that men are all leather candy and have indomitable and tenacious beliefs. Not every man has a strong nerve that can withstand 'torture'. They are equally timid in encountering setbacks, worried about being coldly pushed away, and trapped in a conditional retreat of cherishing themselves.
If the first date goes smoothly, men will think that the impact of leaving two people behind is likely to lead to good growth. On the contrary, if a woman is not infected on the first date, she will dissipate and cut off the kite from now on. Due to the habit of not having a second opportunity, a man's camera will clearly show hospitality on their first date. Therefore, if the woman guarantees the man's sincerity, she should give corresponding hints. If you are slow or hesitant due to your numbness, it is taboo to promptly convey the message "I also think you are good" to the opposite family, and do not create favorable conditions for the men to warm up, the influence of the two husbands will not progress in the end. To be impolite, there are more and more men who are overindulgent and shy, and do not have the ability to interact with women. These types of men expect women to take the initiative. When dating to a certain level, men will first consider further influencing it. It is said that men are lower body animals, and some even say that they always consider the timing of kissing when dating. This statement does not cross the line. 58% of men believe that if we really hit it off, having intimate contact on our first date won't diminish my love for her, 21% feel that three dates are better, and 21% cross six dates. Generally speaking, when they harbor some kind of intimacy delusion, they will first seek to know their thoughts towards their home, and also try their best to convey their comments to their home.
The primary condition for intimate contact is mutual comment. Being too careless and publicly known, being slapped by a woman or pouring alcohol on the face is not good for socializing. Men must be sensitive and strategic old foxes when it comes to testing women's empathy. When watching a movie, it is common practice to pretend to unintentionally touch the woman's hand, or to confess her opinion by making light physical contact such as approaching her knee. In a bar, sitting side by side at the bar also leads to an equal outcome. It seems that the occasional contact between the shoulders of passersby knows her attitude. If the woman pulls her hand or knee back in an instant, it can be predicted that she has no intention of delving deeper into the process, at least not yet. On the contrary, if she stubbornly avoids it, it means there is a drama. Confessing to the future, how to implement warm-up? Extending the appointment time is the top priority. Suggest going for dessert after dinner, taking a walk together, or taking the woman home. Once such an invitation is made, it is almost certain that he is a drunken man and his intention is no longer to drink. Can you guarantee a kiss, and can you make a personal commitment at the end? A few nights before the date, they were already consulting with their close friends based on their warm-up plan from the night of the date to the end, posting online and discussing when and where to step forward for a kiss. During the date, they exhausted their mental energy to consider the next posture process, so their camera conversations were constantly changing and their chewing food was completely unaware of its flavor. Even if the women next to them have entered the scene of heartfelt conversation, they are often unaware of it. In the first half of this year, the highly popular "tram man" plot in Japan was about an ordinary man seeking advice on how to pursue women he met on the Shinkansen on the country's largest BBS, mobilizing tens of thousands of netizens to work tirelessly for it. Afterwards, this honest situation was copied into books, movies, TV dramas, and plays. However, for men, inviting women without hesitation can become a different and similar topic among men.
Sex bar: Men have pushed forward countless times in their minds based on dating scenarios:
What to wear, where to meet, how to greet, where to eat, what topics to talk about during meals, and then how to implement the next step, constantly changing the plan, and constantly guessing whether to win, often leads to even more tense and uneasy outcomes. No matter what kind of psychological exercise you have, or what kind of rehearsal you do based on, your date may not always be as they wish. For men and women who have comments on each other but are in the stage of mutual exploration, whether the timing and mentality of both parties are appropriate is a quite subtle situation. The camera misses the happy opportunity due to a biased interpretation of an expression and posture. Even if the woman deliberately misses the opportunity, she will not win with her hands down. What will a man do when a woman confesses, refuses to kiss or warm up? Preference, almost all men do not seek it again, but willingly give up. Of course, there are also some stubborn men who are unwilling to give up and set up magical plans to take the right home, waiting for an opportunity to revive. However, more often than not, men have become fatigued by the divine suffering and concentration, and their self-esteem has been pushed away, preferring to give up in order not to face greater escort.
Therefore, when you also have the intention to stay with him, such as kissing or engaging in intimate contact, even if there is not enough conceptual exercise for a while, you should be cheerful and avoid misunderstandings. Because they do not know their true intention towards home and miss out on fate, they blindly assume that they have no sincerity towards home and are willing to socialize, or to avoid being escorted by self-esteem, worry about being defeated, and have not yet realized their true intention towards home, resulting in missing out on opportunities, all have different preferences. As long as I perform a little, the whole thing will be unfulfilled. Unfortunately, some men and women who hold opinions towards each other may end up halfway to becoming monks.
