In ancient times, "sissy" was synonymous with eunuchs, but now that eunuchs no longer exist, how could there still be "sissy"? In fact, this is mainly caused by psychological reasons. Generally, many people have developed such habits since childhood, so what is it? Let's take a look together!
On the surface, some boys may not like their fathers, but in fact, they only express their strong desire for fatherly love in a rebellious way, which is called "fatherly thirst" in psychology.
In modern society, competition is increasing, and most fathers have fewer opportunities to interact with their children due to work relationships. From infancy to adolescence, boys are often surrounded by their mothers and female teachers, and masculinity has become a scarce element in their personality construction. Excessive femininity has become a hallmark weakness of modern boys.
In fact, children like fathers who are caring, considerate, amiable, loving, and understanding.
A good father is both the protector and confidant of a child; He not only respects children's initiative and independence, but also provides necessary education and guidance. A good father is approachable and tolerant. His open-mindedness, openness, sincerity, and generosity provide a good opportunity for children to confide in him. When they tell their father all their troubles, they will feel that his broad chest is so warm, comfortable, and safe, which even inspires their children's confidence and courage in life.
Children are most eager for their fathers to truly enter their hearts, understand their thoughts, interests, emotions, and joys, in order to understand and support their choices and pursuits. They not only care about their children's physical condition, academic performance, whether they can be admitted to key high schools or universities, but also have a sufficient understanding of their children's psychology, thoughts, and personality, and can consciously help them overcome their shortcomings during their growth process.