Post Date April, 15 2023
1. Lying to create opportunities: "Xiaomin, can I work overtime today? I hope you can help me with something, and I must..."
Brainstorming: Men lie to create opportunities. Is that work really urgent? If you work overtime for less than 30 minutes and he wants to invite you to dinner, then working overtime must be a lie.
2. The lie during the invitation: "Xiaomin, thank you for working overtime for me. Let's go to a restaurant you like and I'll treat you."
Shine your eyes: Invite them to dinner is their usual trick. Let you choose a familiar place to create a sense of security. He will never be foolish enough to bring you into the zone he frequents, causing suspicion.
3. "I haven't been so happy for a long time, I can't bear to leave you. (Stares at you affectionately) Oh, I don't have the confidence to pursue you, ha!" (chuckles brightly)
You need to be sober: this move is really insidious. Make your own point, then take a step back and shift the choice to you. If you soften your heart a bit, even if you know his intention clearly, you will unconsciously and foolishly be moved.
4. Lying by promise: "I will definitely give you happiness in the future. After a while, I will definitely do something..."
Please understand: this is a train running with a mouth full. Never say a specific time, never say anything. Let you always set your hope in the future. The more he said, the more he disappeared, but the more specific your dreams became.
5. "I'm sorry, I can't leave. My daughter is sick and terminally ill. I didn't want to tell you, but I can't delay you..."
Look at him clearly: Tears streaming down his nose and telling him the reason for breaking up, just to wait for your "Okay, I agree to leave you" sentence. If you make it clear that you can wait for him, he will immediately appear anxious and desperate. If the city is not deep, he may become furious and reveal his frank nature.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
