Post Date December, 02 2023
Different men have similar psychological activities when falling in love, so all women also have the same love troubles. But this is just everyone asking for trouble! The reason why women feel that their boyfriends are not good enough is because they don't know them well enough.
So, what are men in love really thinking?
1. I hope women can take the initiative
Many people believe that women should be more reserved when in love, and if they take the initiative, it will be very embarrassing. However, men in love prefer women to be more proactive.
In the process of sexual interaction, neither party always takes the initiative because it makes them feel like they are giving unilaterally, and you won't know whether the outcome of taking the initiative is good or bad. Occasionally, they will become less proactive, not timid, nor afraid of being rejected. Behind their desire for you to take the initiative, it is their desire to receive a response from you!
2. Afraid of being urged to marry
I don't know when men will separate love from marriage. In their opinion, falling in love does not necessarily mean getting married to each other.
Men only consider getting married when the weather, place, and people are in harmony. If they urge marriage before they are ready, men will urge them not to. Especially when facing girlfriends who indirectly urge marriage, they will feel very overwhelmed.
3. Silence during arguments ≠ lack of remorse
Men are a magical creature. They don't like to argue, and when faced with sudden bombardment from women, they can fight back or curse back. But for women, this attitude can make them even more angry, and instead become more noisy and aggressive. In fact, at this moment, men are also angry. They don't argue with you, they are trying to appease you while calming down.
4. Self centered! Willful!
Every man is actually a capricious little public servant who often demands that his girlfriend must meet his ideal standards. If he fails to achieve his goal, they will be very angry and even feel that the woman has let him down.
Men in the kingdom of emotions are definitely a fatuous ruler. As long as women are willing to flatter, they will agree to anything. This is probably due to their so-called male self-esteem, so girls should be obedient and be a little woman
5. Forever Career First
Once a woman encounters love, she will involuntarily be monopolized by love. Everything is secondary to her, and only love is her only one. But men are different, and career is the first element in their hearts. In their view, men without careers, like women without love, have nothing.
6. Caring about a woman's past
Men cannot completely let go of a woman's past. They always want to inquire, probably because of the strong possessiveness in their hearts.
Men are extremely possessive creatures, and they care about their women's "exclusivity". Therefore, they care who has owned you before, even if they delve into it, they need to figure it out, just like standing at the center of the earth and declaring to men around the world that you are their woman.
7. It's not important to go to bed? That's a scam
Others always say that women are vegetarian animals, while men are carnivorous animals. In a woman's heart, a relationship pursues feelings, while in a man's heart, it often depends on whether or not they have sex with the woman.
In order to prove their charm, even if there are women in love, bad men still like to prove their charm from other women.
Men have various thoughts and inner activities in love, but they do not pour out all their worries to women. Because it would make him feel embarrassed.
As an excellent girlfriend or even wife, even if he doesn't say it, he should learn to feel his true thoughts and satisfy his small capriciousness in this relationship!
