Post Date December, 02 2023
Conflicts in marriage are inevitable, but they can be dealt with calmly. Who can err without being a saint? Face the mistakes of your lover with a broad mind to understand and understand, and guide and correct them with the intersection of your hearts. Compulsory control only deepens the rebellious mentality of the other party, and there will be an obvious "master slave" level relationship between them. In the long run, feelings will inevitably appear separated.
Correcting the mistakes of a loved one should be like treating a younger person with the same patience as an older person. Use your utmost patience to help him or her correct his or her mistakes, give the other person the opportunity to mend his or her ways, move the other person with true feelings, and let him or her feel the power of love. Of course, mistakes cannot be made frequently, let alone without repentance. The human heart is made of flesh. If even love cannot shake his or her cold heart, it is time to consider whether to continue living.
True marriage is not only the spiritual and sexual integration of both men and women, but also needs to be based on mutual respect and tolerance between both men and women. Men and women, even couples who have been married for many years, have feelings that are not inert elements in chemistry, have no relatively stable structure, and if they are slightly careless, they will break up.
Love is a fragile thing that needs to be "handled with care"; Love is a perishable product that needs to be prevented from fading, and always observe whether it deteriorates. To be a conscientious person, don't put her in a safe just because you marry her back home or marry him.
Love requires tolerance and understanding. No matter how perfect your love used to be, it will always become rusty and even miserable due to the erosion of time. For marriage, the most difficult thing is not life, but the reunion of hearts.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
