Post Date December, 03 2023
Tolstoy said: "Happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes." Some family life is always in the conflict of "fire and smoke" and "fierce war". In the long run, there will be no love between husband and wife, and only children will remain the bond of maintaining a family. Is it necessary for husband and wife to maintain a marriage without love for one child?
Yiming is 38 years old and works as an architect in Beijing with considerable income. He and his wife have been married for 12 years, but they are like strangers at home. If they talk to each other, they are also impatient. If they hear a kind tone, they are also talking to children.
Every time Yiming comes home, he either looks at this or that. In addition to quarrels and quarrels, the cause of the matter will go back to ten years ago.
When Yiming first married, he loved his wife very much. Later, his wife's family like Yiming asked for 150000 yuan. Yiming, who had just entered the society, didn't have so much money.
He thought his wife would come to him and help him find a way to solve it, but he didn't expect his wife to tell a lie with his family, saying that his brother was in a car accident, so Yiming had no choice but to go out and lend 150000 yuan to his family.
Later, Yiming was heartbroken when he learned that it was false. He didn't expect that the woman he loved would cheat him so cruelly. At that time, his wife was pregnant.
For the sake of this family, his wife begged hard, but Yiming didn't take heart to divorce his wife. But he can't go back to the past and live a loving life with his wife.
Now, ten years later, Yiming's children are all nine years old. His home and his wife's home are still there, but the relationship between husband and wife has disappeared.
Children become the bond of marriage
Many couples still choose to maintain the painful "make do" marriage even when they have no love and marriage is only empty shell. Families without love are already very unfortunate, while families that barely survive may be even more unfortunate. Even maintaining such a marriage may not be beneficial to children, because children need to grow up in a loving family, instead of facing the parents' quarrels and "coldness" between parents every day. If a child lives in such a family without love, can he grow up happily?
If a couple makes the choice of "maintaining an unhappy marriage for their children", it may be for their own responsibility, but if they choose to divorce without hurting their children under the consideration of all aspects, this may be the best destination for the couple to choose to end their relationship.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
