The reason why extramarital love can destroy marriage is due to the imperfection of marriage itself, the lack of solid feelings between husband and wife or some factors, so the impact of extramarital love cannot be stopped. There are many types of this kind of marriage, the most common of which are three.
Marry prematurely
Because of early marriage, I didn't understand the fulfillment of responsibilities and obligations, and naturally lacked certain living ability, experience and correct outlook on life, values and love. With the increase of age, the broadening of vision and the enrichment of experience, this kind of love is the most vulnerable to the wind and rain. A little temptation will lead to extramarital love.
Flash marriage
After a flash marriage, it is like a businessman who finds an opportunity to make a quick fortune, does not examine the market situation without careful consideration, and makes venture capital entirely based on his own blind and arbitrary decision. Undoubtedly, the probability of such a business failure can be imagined, and marriage is the same. The person who can flash marriage must have not been thoughtful, or have thought deeply but have not looked into the long term, The probability of extramarital love in such marriage is also very high.
Discordant sexual life
Why is it always said that the family is dead in name? Its essence is the disharmony of sexual life, because the harmonious relationship between husband and wife directly affects the extramarital love. Although today's people's concept of gender has changed greatly, excluding the material standard of living, they also have higher and higher requirements for the quality of sexual life, or put more emphasis on sex. As long as the other party can not meet their physiological needs, it is naturally the time for one party to "ask for another talent".