Post Date December, 03 2023
Unhappy couples may have their own misfortunes, but happy couples must have one thing in common: a harmonious sexual life. Couples who master some necessary "sexual" philosophy can be happier. Yes, there are also some philosophies in sexual life, and everyone should understand some of them, so that they can become more intelligent in sexual life, obtain more pleasure, and cheer for marriage.
Correctly define "sex"
Couples should have a correct definition and understanding of "sex". Regardless of the length of time, there is always a desire for intimacy between the sexes. Therefore, it is necessary to broaden the understanding of the meaning of "sex": "sex" is not limited to organs and orgasms. "Sex" exists in all aspects of foreplay, touching, hugging, flirting, and so on, as long as it can enhance your sexual energy.
Reduce expectations
As the saying goes, "The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.". Many people are obsessed with what a perfect sexual life should look like, such as how it feels, how long it takes to be good, and what posture to adopt. This way, sexual pleasure cannot be obtained. Because most of these expectations are inspired by film and television works, often out of touch with reality. Once these expectations are discarded, people will truly appreciate how wonderful the love they are experiencing is.
Understanding Your Body
The degree of understanding of the body is directly proportional to the degree of pleasure. Only by better understanding your body can you better experience the feeling of intimacy in sexual life and better demand from your sexual partner. So quickly explore your body and better understand it.
Slow down
Sex doesn't always require eating fast food. Occasionally, it's okay to have a "quick fight" for a change, but eating fast food all the time can easily bring hidden dangers. If you want to close the relationship between the sexes, you still need to savor it slowly. During foreplay, you can slow down the frequency of the action to 1/10 of the previous one, and you will experience a completely different feeling.
Fully mobilize the senses
"A roommate is not just a contact between certain special organs, but rather a mobilization of the whole body and mind.". Couples can mobilize all aspects of their senses, such as dimming the lights, which can help people fully immerse themselves in the clouds and rain.
Open your eyes and make love
When kissing or making love, people usually habitually close their eyes. "But if you can make out with your eyes open, you'll feel better, and it's best to look at your partner.". Perhaps you will feel a bit strange, especially for the first gaze to gaze kiss. However, once you overcome the strange feeling, you will feel more intimate and more interested.
Focus on the feeling of the moment
Distraction is a major negative factor that affects sexual pleasure. Therefore, if you find your thoughts drifting during intimacy, you should quickly stop and focus on your current experience. And to avoid the impact of modern technology, for example, a survey shows that one in five people even check their phones while sharing a room, so be sure to turn off their phones or put them in airplane mode.
Rest assured and breathe freely
Don't think holding your breath is more intense! Women should pay particular attention to breathing freely when orgasm comes. "If you hold your breath, it reduces the flow of blood and oxygen into the pelvic floor area, both of which are necessary for orgasm.". Continuous deep breathing helps to prolong pleasure and transmit sexual energy throughout the body. You can try to increase sexual pleasure by exhaling and inhaling while having sex, and exhaling when inhaling.
Couples express appreciation to each other
Always express appreciation for your loved one, which can increase relationship satisfaction. Everyone has their own unique strengths, and they often think about the strengths and benefits of their partner, such as generosity, supporting you in fulfilling your dreams, caring for your children, and saying "Thank you".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
