For men and women who are trapped in the fog of marriage, some mistakes can be completely avoided if they pay a little attention at ordinary times. So, for women, we should pay attention to avoid the following three major mistakes in marriage.
1、 Women are too harsh on men after marriage
The so-called harshness of women refers to deliberately making men difficult and demanding too much from men. Many women like to pick bones in men's eggs after marriage. In the long run, men will feel hurt. Men choose to come together with a woman in the hope of having a partner to share the hardships and comfort each other. If a woman is too strict with men after marriage, often makes trouble without reason, and puts forward extremely excessive requirements, which will make men collapse.
For men, many personnel changes have become a habit, even numb. However, no matter how strong a man is, he will still have a weak side. If women can't give men proper comfort and encouragement, but blindly scold and abuse, men will cheat or end the relationship sooner or later. You should know that love is mutual in marriage. If a woman only knows how to ask for the love of a man, but is stingy to pay her own love, this asymmetric love will seriously unbalance the balance of the marriage, and then make the relationship collapse.>> How to regulate unreasonable events between husband and wife
2、 Women are too close to the opposite sex after marriage
If a woman gets too close to other opposite sex after marriage, it will make men feel insecure in marriage. The necessary social intercourse is still needed, which does not mean that women must cut off their previous social circle after marriage. And flower heart is a common disease of human beings. Both men and women are more or less flower heart without exception. However, if a woman is still hooking up with other heterosexuals after marriage, acting too flirtatious, always eating what is in the bowl and staring at what is in the pot, all kinds of insatiable greed and attracting butterflies, naturally the most likely to make men worry about gains and losses, and inevitably cause men's aversion.
Like women, men also like to treat women with more single-minded feelings. If a woman is not specific to men after marriage, men can not and dare not give a heart to each other. In the past, this marriage will certainly have cracks. In marriage, the most important principle and bottom line for the couple to maintain this marriage is mutual sincerity and loyalty. The sense of security is mutual. If women make men feel insecure enough, men will choose to betray this marriage sooner or later.
3、 Women are too strict with men's financial income and expenditure after marriage
Wutong has repeatedly described in previous blog posts that the most important principle between husband and wife is mutual respect, understanding and trust. As for men saving private money behind their wives' backs, this matter can be big or small. Women should know that it is not selfish for men to save private money. Because once a woman manages a man's financial income and expenditure too rigidly, too strict, or even penniless, then a man must try to save some private money. However, a man's private money is inadvertently discovered by a woman, which can cause two consequences: either arousing marital conflict or causing a cold war between husband and wife. Many times, men will inevitably have some entertainment or other places to spend money, so it is impossible for men to have no money. Women should also understand men's mood of saving private money. Men may as well communicate with women. wutong believes that there is no problem that can not be solved by sincere communication between husband and wife, let alone private money. Therefore, in any case, women can control the economic power of the family after marriage, but they should also give men some material compensation.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)