This survey report using the keyword "third party" shows that nearly half of the parties have a bachelor's degree or above, and fewer have a low educational level; Age: The majority of middle-aged people are 35-45 years old; In terms of marriage age: the majority of people who have short-term marriage for 2-3 years and their children have just grown up; Gender: The probability of female cheating is significantly lower than that of male.
Jin Yuan, a psychologist with the Anti Third Party Alliance, analyzed that most middle-aged people aged 35-45 have reached the "Seven Year Itch" moment, when third parties are most likely to take advantage of the situation. Moreover, these middle-aged men have reached a certain level in terms of economic income and social status, and are vulnerable to external temptation.
Pregnancy and separation are both derailment nodes
The report analyzed the high incidence of third parties at nodes: Men with wives during pregnancy and childbirth are more likely to seek third parties; Men who are experiencing serious setbacks in their careers are prone to seek sustenance or catharsis through extramarital affairs once they are not comforted at home; The man has committed irreparable faults, such as domestic violence, gambling losses, etc., which have caused harm to the spouse, and based on strong retaliatory psychology, it is also easy for women to seek extramarital affairs; For couples living apart for a long time, it is easy for either party to seek extramarital affairs to make up for their lives.
After encountering a third party, more than 80% of women mainly fight against the third party and stick to their marriage, while only a small proportion will end up with a resolute divorce.
69% of men have female confidants
A few days ago, a dating website released the "2011-2012 Survey Report on Chinese Men's and Women's Views on Marriage and Love". According to the survey, "personality" is the most important thing for Hunan people, and 57% of Hunan people said during blind dates that only when they have a similar temper can they find a suitable person.
In addition, Beijingers value educational background and owning a house and a car the most, and cannot accept "long-distance love"; Shanghai people are the most tolerant of "transnational love" and "old and young love", and they are not optimistic about "Phoenix men and Peacock women", and most recognize "love of business"; Cantonese are the least optimistic about "strong women and weak men"; Anhui people value the outside world most, and having more or less money is not a problem. Liaoning people say that income is important and age is not a problem.
Sixty percent of homeowners approve or accept premarital property notarization, while the proportion of men and women who oppose it is 11% and 28%, respectively. The older the person and the higher the income, the higher the proportion of support for premarital property notarization.
According to a survey of "female confidants", the rate of male "having (having) female confidants" in Sichuan is as high as 74%, ranking first in all provinces, and the average value of this data nationwide is also as high as 69%.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)