Can everyone's love last long? In fact, it's not easy to fall in love for a long time. Couples have some common catchphrases, and we should take them as a warning. A Japanese website has summarized some words that women often say to their boyfriends in "short lived couples". Let's take a look together.
You must marry me
At the beginning of a relationship, before falling in love, they started saying they absolutely wanted to marry me or something. I think this will quickly end a relationship. Especially among student couples, many of them just like each other but don't want to have a serious relationship.
If you only dated for one or two months before breaking up, think about whether you have ever had a marriage agreement with your partner. In fact, if you haven't thought about getting married or breaking up after a few months of dating, it's not considered a relationship that ends too soon. If one has made a marriage agreement with the other party before, there will also be a sense of guilt and sadness in one's heart when breaking up.
Do you like me?
Frequently asking 'Do you like me' and 'Do you love me?' is something that girls involuntarily do in love. I often ask him if you like me, but for men who don't need to worry too much about changing their minds, asking this all the time can have a counterproductive effect.
Many girls have made such mistakes, but often confirming that the other person likes them is also a sign of distrust towards them. And if the other party does make themselves feel uneasy from the beginning, no wonder it's difficult to last in the end.
Break up now
When arguing with my boyfriend, I often say 'break up', but in the end, I quickly broke up, although this may be a result theory.
When girls argue, they may be tempted to blurt out words like 'break up', but if they often do so, the other party may also feel very tired. Although arguments and breakups are only made when both men and women are very close, saying these words can make women look foolish.
Unable to speak the truth
Speaking of clich é s, I usually can't tell my boyfriend the truth, which is the most fatal thing. We are very nervous when we are together, and we only know how to praise each other and say nice things, which is very dangerous. But I have always been like that.
It's dangerous to criticize someone by saying things like 'you're the most handsome' or 'you're cute' without saying anything at all. Indeed, the most enduring couple is the one who can easily and freely talk to each other when they are together.
Remember to call me every night
If you set rules such as making phone calls every day and dating at least twice a week right after a date, you won't be able to last long! The ups and downs will never last.
Perhaps many people will deeply understand that the hotter the love, the faster it will be divided. It is better for women who like to set many rules and maintain close contact to change their habits, as they may find it very troublesome.