Think she's interested in you? With these characteristics, you are regarded as a tool man

The word "tool man" has become more and more popular in recent years. Everyone doesn't want to pay for a person wholeheartedly, but some people think that these actions are only due to the help of a friend... etc. Everyone has different definitions of tool man. In the simplest way, don't always take the other party's pay for granted, and use the other party's feelings for you to achieve something.

No.10 occupying seats/helping to queue

Hey, I will be late. Can you help me to take a seat with my friend? Many tool people start from here. At first, they may think that it is nothing but to help a friend occupy a seat. Over time, occupying a seat seems to become your job. They don't eat lunch and rush to the classroom just to help occupy a good seat. The other person not only doesn't have a good thank you, but also takes it for granted. Sometimes they will be scolded if they don't occupy a seat?

No. 9 Buy three meals and supper

Many girls start with buying breakfast, helping to buy three meals, having supper, and maybe getting the chance to eat together! It's too insidious to attack from the three meals in daily life, and then let the other party get used to your existence silently! However, what doesn't feel for you is that it doesn't feel for you forever. Even if you buy three meals a year, the other party won't start eating you after eating.

It is not easy to buy three meals for you. What you want to buy is different from the menu every day. If you are a tool person, you should not even think of helping you out! Who are you still working as a dietitian? Put away your love, it's more important to use the money to support yourself!

No.8 Help move

The women who are alone outside need strong men when they move. They usually have no contact. When they want to move, they think of your existence. One time is OK, two times and three times ask you for help. The label of the tool man is too obvious, just like being a moving company, and the labor is really thankless. But there are still many people willing to help each other. Do you think that moving will move into each other's heart? Don't be silly. The mentality of the girls may be just too good. Finally, someone can help me move. I just need to command nearby?

No. 7 quarrel with your boyfriend/girlfriend and complain to you

Even if the other party has a boyfriend/girlfriend, you are still willing to accompany him in silence. When they quarrel, you are his outlet, complain to the bitter master, and then get a thank you. It seems that it will be all right after I tell you something. You think that one day he will find that your spiritual mentor is very important to him, but in fact, you are just treated as a mood trash can, and he will have no feelings for you, You are just a tool person who will listen silently and give advice (although it may only be listened to). The other party doesn't need you, just a garbage can that can listen to his mood. You like the other party, but the other party already has an object, but you are still listening to him without complaint? Put it down. Your kindness is worth cherishing.

No.6 Write notes/homework/report

Even if there is no emotional component in this, there are many friends who do it! The exam is coming. Can you borrow me to take a note? So you have worked hard for half a semester and all your hard work in class was drained overnight, or you didn't do anything during the group report, and finally came up to ask yourself where you can help. It is really outrageous to have the idea of once and for all. How on earth can you take all the things that others have built up at once?

However, there are still many tool people who say thank you for being treated like this. The same things are reviewed again and again, and the grades are also going up sharply. It seems that only one credit has been paid, but there are two credits of resources. It is still very cost-effective to calculate?

No. 5 All expenses for going out are paid by you

This may appear in women to men. What sense of achievement do many boys go out for? Rushing to help girls pay, girls who have no idea repeatedly ask boys to pay, and it becomes natural to pay until the end, but wait, they haven't become lovers, how can they always help girls pay like boyfriends?

They all say that when you are young, your feelings are like raising a wife for someone, but you have not even got a reputation and have been used as a withdrawal tool. Wake up! How much money was spent on girls? It's better to save the money and buy a beautiful dress to give back to my mother! Girls should not take the money that boys pay for you for granted. The AA system before dating is really important!

No. 4 Send as you go

The essential function of being a tool person is to be delivered as soon as possible. As long as the other person makes a phone call and a request, you can immediately push everything for him and become like you have no life of your own. This kind of payment is really touching, but for the other person who has no emotion, he will not consider your payment at all. He will only think that you are a good person who can call as soon as possible, Then he wants to ask you for help in everything he wants. Do you think he first thought of you because he cares about you? No, you are just like the screwdriver that is always in the tool box and is most often thought of and used.

Well enrich your life, don't refuse! Let the other party know that you are not coming at once. Increase your value and don't be a good tool.

No. 3 Computer repair/various 3C objects

Hehehehehehehehehehehehe, the word tool man starts here! All kinds of houses in Chengdu will encounter girls asking for help to repair computers, although this is really a very professional and professional thing (some girls even have to install computers for a long time), which can be called computer idiots. However, boys are always asked to repair computers. After repair, they should also be invited to have a meal or give a thank-you gift to show their gratitude! (The boy who can repair the computer said: do it) Or try to understand it by himself during the repair process. You can also interact with the boy in the process of repairing the computer. It doesn't seem to be like leaving the other person there as a tool man. And the next time you meet him, you can probably repair it by yourself!

No. 2 I will find you without company

Many people will definitely feel lonely and cold when they first break up in love. At this time, the person they want to find is just a consolation, not a real love. But when you happen to be interested in the other party, the chances are very high. The other party wants to find you for everything, such as eating, watching a movie, and going out to find you. All of these make you mistakenly think that he has a good feeling for you. In fact, the other party is just spiritual emptiness, It's really sad to see you as a companion! You have been trampled on your true feelings by the other party when you paid wholeheartedly. Only when you found out, did you know that all your efforts were in vain. You really lost a love, and your hearts were both lost!

No.1 Being a driver

It seems that it is easy for people who have a driver's license and a car to become the exclusive driver of friends around them. It is OK to help carry people occasionally. But if the friends around take the matter of carrying people as a matter of course all the time, the people who have a car must be very unhappy. They feel like the driver who has been used up. If they are left aside, they will be fine, and they will have to pick up and pick up at all times; However, some boys seem to think that such a warm reception will one day bring girls to their hearts. This idea is like cheating yourself. In fact, you just waste your time and fuel money (if girls don't help to share for a long time). People who don't know how to ride a bike should learn to ride a bike, or take more public transport and walk more. It's more embarrassing than bothering others all day!

The tool heart method, practice not practice into free heart certificate!

Don't mention the bitter history of the tool man, but do you think there are any good examples of turning into a palace? have Of course! In the Korean drama "The Road to the Third Class", Park Xujun said that he was the best tool for Kim Ji-won, and told him where to go right away, although he still appeared on time despite breaking his mind; When you are not a boyfriend and want to cry, cry in his arms; He will accompany you wherever you go. But don't forget, in fact, the girls in the play are the men who love the tragedy! In addition to the requirements, I silently did more thoughtful things for him, not just using it!

When the tool man makes money and loses money, everything is his own pleasure and willing to accept, or do you advise you to meet the terror object of princess disease or quickly retreat to avoid unexpected, do not believe? Otherwise, you can listen to the rule of tool man strengthening published by the curator of the online celebrity company and learn it!