Sometimes we have to envy women. Because many times we find that men have much greater pressure than women, which is reflected in many aspects, such as achieving success in their careers, earning a lot of money to support their families, coordinating the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and so on. Most women can easily live their lives as long as they have good parenting. These pressures also make men gasp for breath and cause psychological illnesses. Women who want to change this situation need to have a good understanding of male psychological stress.
Male psychological stress
1. Continuous work
The normal working hours of an average person are 8-10 hours, and exceeding 10 hours can easily cause a burden on human health. With the rapid development of society and social pressure, urban men in China usually work more than 8 hours, which can easily create psychological burden for a long time.
2. Family
The work environment, social environment, and the value choices and emotional orientations among family members can all hide and trigger family crises. Even in situations where there is no reason for conflict, pressure will still come to you through the family. This makes many white-collar men unhappy and unhappy all day long, sometimes feeling anxious and upset.
3. Disease strike
In today's society, men themselves face great pressure. If there is still a disease in between, it will make it even more difficult for the otherwise sick body to bear the heavy burden. When you are under pressure, your body cannot be in a strong state, and diseases can invade at any time, exacerbating your sense of worry, which in turn continues to damage your already weak health, creating a vicious cycle.
4. Excessive greed
Some men may become overly obsessed with money, which leads to a high desire for things like money and wealth. This is also what we often call greed. Greed can easily cause long-term tension in one's relaxed brain nerves, accelerate normal heart and brain movements, and produce a rhythm that is not coordinated with normal physiological functions, which can cause heartbreak, damage to the mind, brain, and body.
5. Sense of loss
When a man fails in his career, he usually wants to seek the attention and understanding of his partner, but reality is always opposite to his inner thoughts, because at this time, female partners will always be angry with the man, thinking that he is not doing anything, not moving forward, not shrewd, etc. This kind of pessimism and disappointment towards career emotions, as well as shattered confidence, are lingering shadows that envelop urban men.
It can be seen that the pressure on men in today's society is quite high, and female partners need to be more considerate and carefree, so that men can relieve their inner pressure. If not relieved and released for a long time, it is easy to cause psychological breakdown and even unpredictable consequences. I believe that through this article, more women can understand male psychological stress and provide appropriate understanding and caregiving, in order to build a happy and long-lasting family.