When we see a woman with outstanding beauty, we always envy her for being easily favored by men. What better weapon can a woman possess than beauty to capture a man? Yes, your personality. Appearance can determine whether a man marries a woman or not, and personality can determine whether a man can stay with you for a long time. Even if you are beautiful, and you are an iceberg beauty, with a stinking face every day, few people can endure it for a lifetime. An ugly woman who is good at discovering the beautiful little things in life; A person who is good at discovering the ugliness of life. Speaking of it, it is not a major event such as education or talent at all. Sometimes, what determines our destiny is the subtle way of thinking. Traffic jams and delays annoy everyone, but if you can extract interest from them, you will become more adorable.
Men like women with this personality
1. In addition to novels and fashion magazines, I also read books
It is normal for married women to read only popular or fashion magazines. But some men have some romantic feelings, like poetry, books, and articles, and hope that their partners also have this elegance. Reading is a good thing, but of course, reading is not about ostentation. Reading helps her avoid the sin of ignorance, allows her to have more common topics with you, and improves her temperament. In general, it is still a kind of fun and rewarding effort.
2. Dreaming with him occasionally
In the life of oil, salt, firewood, and rice, men occasionally overflow with unrealistic dreams. Even if it's too ethereal, don't sneer mercilessly. When in a mood, dream with her. Don't worry too much, what normal man would be so stupid as to think that a dream would never wake up?
3. Learn humor
The gentleness and kindness of a woman are sugar, but the sheer sweetness will one day tire a man to death. Humor temperament is salt, which is sparsely distributed in a woman's body, but once present, it can evoke a distinctive flavor - compared to women who cover their ears when listening to adult jokes, women who can tell one or two adult jokes are certainly more interesting.
4. Caring about his family
If you love him, take the initiative to care for his family. Remit money or buy gifts early on his parents' birthdays; His brothers and sisters are more anxious than he is; The poor relatives from his hometown will not show contempt, because to despise his relatives means to despise his past and despise him as a person.
5. Be gentle with the opposite sex around him
Don't be neurotic about his interactions with female friends. If there's a bit of wind blowing, you think he's having an affair and should abandon yourself. A confident woman never acts as a police dog sniffing after her husband's butt, nor does she know what it means to be abandoned. Even if there is an affair, I have the confidence to drag you back to my side - if I still want him.
6. Willing to live with him
Don't expect too much from him, and give maximum tolerance to mediocrity and insipidity. "He is not a rich man, nor a successful person who is powerful, but she is willing to follow him to lead an ordinary life.". She is tolerant and witty, and she is not prone to nagging and complaining that you are stupid and can't make a lot of money - you know, this is what men are most afraid of and annoyed about.
7. Can live independently
Some men like women to be dependent birds so that they can protect them. More men prefer women to have an independent spirit. Don't let your nose run and your tears run down, and don't stick to him all day long, making his world without even a friend to chat with except you. Men like to have their own space, but in fact, you also want to have your own space. Strong and independent, in his heart is the most beautiful.
8. Give understanding and acceptance when he is angry
The pressure and hardships that men experience in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. Therefore, men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without any reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but are just venting their depressed feelings. Men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and they need women to pay a considerable price of grievance.
9. Give him a sense of security
Men are no less jealous than women, and they are prone to life-threatening battles. There are far more men who die under the sword of duels between lovers than women who are jealous and tear their faces. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's state of mind mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and be careful with men's paranoia and speculation.
10. Don't gossip
Domestic ugliness should not be publicized. The right and wrong in the family are inherently inexplicable matters. If added to the gossip from the outside world, a man's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if a man intends to reconcile, it is difficult to ride a tiger. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only option is to close the door and negotiate slowly. Because the principle of men's domestic affairs is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in their internal affairs.
11. Don't compare casually
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family with others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand a woman's original intention and wishes, and only subjectively believe that a woman is criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
12. Accommodate his faults and shortcomings
Men attach far more importance to their families and women than women imagine. They are always accustomed to using their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. Therefore, they hope that their success and failure can be fully accommodated here, and they will always welcome them back with open arms.
13. Generous and decent
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and who is indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they believe that their family and their women are their true faces. Sometimes we roast that men only look at faces, but sometimes they also pay attention to things other than faces. There are not many beauties in the world, so most people don't have outstanding looks. There are many beauties in the world, but they are all spoiled, so don't belittle yourself in front of beautiful women.
There is no love for no reason in the world, and a man is finally willing to give up the freedom on his ring finger and happily lead a woman onto the red carpet. This woman may have some moving qualities that he can cherish. Therefore: Whoever marries home is the best! In fact, appearance can determine whether a man marries a woman, and personality can determine whether a man can stay with you for a long time. Even if you are beautiful, and you are an iceberg beauty, with a stinking face every day, few people can endure it for a lifetime. So this is definitely an inspirational story. Ugly women should cultivate their optimistic skills and not become bad judges in life.