Post Date December, 03 2023
A good man is an equation, and 1000 women will have 1000 solutions. But most women's values are nothing more than the following: appearance, wealth, talent, romantic, eloquence.
At the same time, the Chinese people also speak of the middle way in handling affairs. They are impartial, neither left nor right, compromise and compromise, and do not go to extremes. Therefore, the value range is much broader. A good man is wandering between X and non-X.
Five criteria for women to judge good men
1、 X=Appearance
X is appearance. But a good man should be between handsome and not handsome. For men, their looks can't be like F4 or flowers. Female fans scream after their hips all day, and they can't be invisible. Handsome, although they look pleasing to the eyes and are full of envy when they take them to the street, women are cautious. After their vanity is satisfied, they will always feel suspicious that such good-looking men will come to grab a lot. After they become "yellow face", they will think all day long in their hearts, and this day will not be over.
So, a good man should be like this: neither the flower prince nor the frog prince.
2、 Y=Wealth
Y is wealth. A good man must be between rich and not rich. I remember a short message that said, "Marriage: poor people are ugly at one meter and forty-nine meters, rural households with primary school culture, three broken houses with a basket of corn, no wife with a cold pot and a hot kang, and no medicine for the whole year. Today's short message is widely used to recruit girlfriends, and the revolutionary road goes hand in hand. Would you like to?" Such a man, would you like to join hands with him? As the saying goes, "poor couples are sad for everything". A good love can't stand the ravages of poverty. If it is not good, love should also be "alas". Then marry a rich man? Neither. If you marry him because of love, you will surely become "this woman must have taken a fancy to other people's money and tried to seduce them to be a young grandmother". In any case, we must bear this cowardly spirit first. There is another saying, "Once you enter the Hou Clan, it is like the sea." Generally speaking, a very rich person often has a huge family power. Marrying him is equal to marrying a huge family. Three aunts and seven aunts can annoy you to death, and "a man becomes bad when he is rich", which is hard to watch, manage, prevent and handle.
Therefore, a good man should be like this: he should have no worries about food and clothing, and he should not be too rich.
Five criteria for women to judge good men
3、 Z=Ability
Z is talent. A good man must be between talent and talent. The ancients said: "A talented man and a beautiful woman", of course, a man must be talented, otherwise there would not be so many single fools in the world. If the woman has no problem with her brain, she will not take the initiative to find a man with a problem in her brain to be her husband. Women are unconsciously attracted by talented men. So, how about those who are really talented and have excellent skills? Would you like to marry Zhuge Liang? Wait a moment, think before answering. Zhuge Liang has talent and strategies. Do you have any? One day, he was suddenly interested in talking with you about the "empty city plan". How many words can you say? If one day he wants to do something behind your back, say a word or two casually and play a little trick, can you tell the truth from the false? Moreover, such men tend to be arrogant and arrogant in the real world. They always think that they are innocent. They feel that "the whole world is turbid and I am alone". They are easy to be ostracized in the unit and become lonely. In case of a small-minded boss, don't talk about development and prospects; In the family, you are more arrogant and don't take you seriously. Then you are miserable. Just be a servant and an attendant. So, a good man should be like this: neither two hundred and five nor Zhuge Liang.
