There are four ways for a man to pick up a girl. Let her take the initiative to ask you out

Leftover men are often left with too thin a face and are afraid of being rejected. In fact, Leftover men have some elegant moves to pick up girls that never lose face and make the girl they love miss you automatically. Leftover men mainly need to know how to discover their own strengths, make good use of their qualities that attract girls, and always let the girl take the initiative to ask you out over time.

1. How to Attract Girls to Remaining Men

"Once I capture this girl's personality, I will deliberately say the wrong thing and ask her to correct me. This way, she can be confident in front of me, and she will realize that I appreciate her very much. The technique of picking up girls is very easy to use, and won't make herself look like an idiot." - Bert, 23

"Although I know everyone knows this truth, I would like to reiterate here that the trick of picking up girls is to let them come close to you, not you to pester me. Every time I see a pretty good girl at a party, I purposely walk away and look at the window with an air of grace. This makes me feel a bit mysterious." - Peter, 29

"When I first met my current girlfriend, she asked me out, but I deliberately pretended to be busy and told her that I couldn't go out with her for the next two weeks because I had other things to do. This was done intentionally to make her feel hopeful about me. Unexpectedly, when I asked her later, she told me that she had been waiting for me at home for two weeks and didn't know what clothes to wear, just to go out with me." ——Ted, 28

2. How to break the awkward atmosphere

"When I pass through a crowded crowd with her, I gently touch her elbow, which makes her feel like a gentleman and less awkward than holding hands." - Derek, 26

"Because my feet are very long, when I go to a restaurant and see a girl I like, I purposely extend my feet out a bit and let her accidentally touch my feet. Of course, she will react, and then I will joke with her once. In this way, she will leave a deep impression on me." - Patton, 22

3. After a passionate pursuit

"After my first date, I deliberately tell her that I won't be free the next weekend to make me look busy and not just chasing girls for lunch all day. If I tell her that the reason I can't go out with her on weekends is because I have to help my mother or sister move, the girls will be more attracted, because family loving men also love their wives and girlfriends." - Kurt, 21

"Usually, I don't ask to meet someone the next day immediately after my first date. The only exception is that I pretend to casually call her the next morning and say, 'I'm going to the beach with my friend later, and yesterday I heard from you that you've always wanted to take a walk...' Whatever you say, as long as it sounds casual. '- Dustin, 24

4. Dating quirks

"My father told me that if a woman doesn't shut her mouth when she eats, she won't understand others. So far, she's still very accurate." - Lan En, 22

"If she can accept me watching those scary monster movies, that's great. But if she can even accept me playing computer games, then I'll feel weird. I'll think, is it a bit too good to be true!" - 23-year-old Dan

"If a girl's home is clean and spotless, I think she may be a difficult person to deal with. If I really stay with her in the future, can't I even lie on the sofa and eat potato chips?" - Philip, 28

"Remaining men can look silly on the outside, but it is also necessary to have the determination to be cheeky from the bottom of their bones to pick up a girl. After all, being cheeky is a necessary psychological quality for picking up a girl. Of course, if your qualifications are good, being cheeky is not a big deal for the girl you most admire, but rather makes the girl more like it.".

(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)