Post Date December, 03 2023
Women are very sensitive, and women are also very cautious. And men are basically careless and open-mouthed. Sometimes, you think it's a joke, but it can make a woman angry and refuse to socialize with you again. You didn't even know how to die, so you were blacklisted. Below are 11 dead spots for women, and men must not offend.
(1) , just being gentle and accommodating
Most men feel that as long as they are considerate and obedient to women, they can win their favor. In fact, this may be a very, very big mistake! After reading the analysis of many psychological experts, it turns out that even the most normal women have a psychological attachment to men, and each woman needs a man with assertiveness, insight, and spirit to be her escort. "Because if they don't love, they will give everything they have. Just think about it, they will still be foolish enough to attach themselves to a weak person?"? When dealing with women, one should take the initiative and give orders; When tough, be tough to the end.
(2) Do not pretend to be competent
When women ask men to help them do things, many men clap their hearts and agree, but in the end, they mess up, dragging and pulling, which can't gain their understanding. "I would rather do what I can in the morning, and refuse politely when I know I'm incompetent. They may still think you're honest and keep a good impression on you.".
(3) . Don't be humble
In fact, most women are fussy, but they don't like men to be fussy. As a man, you must be prepared for going out with a woman. You should spend money openly, and at the very least, you should not appear shabby. If you don't have money, don't dating, okay?
(4) Don't be absent-minded
When dating women, men should concentrate and always pay attention to their conversation and intentions. If you have been absent-minded and stared at her questions and topics without knowing what was right, it would be a very disappointing event for her! Next time you want to date her again, she may treat you to a full ton of lemons. So, let go of the things that often disturb your mind for a while! For example, if someone often dials your mobile phone, just turn it off! You won't die without listening to a few phone calls!
(5) Don't ask about age
Everyone may have heard of this early in the morning, but I still feel the need to take the trouble to say it again. Even if a woman is usually how honest and sincere, but when she mentions her age, she always goes to great lengths to dodge, hide, and even cheat! A middle-aged woman with gray hair at the beginning will tell you that she doesn't know what "Star Wars" is and ask if you know the sequel to "Tiansha Earth Counter Strike"? In short, only women under 18 and over 60 have a less caring attitude towards their age. So when faced with a woman, you can almost ask any question, but remember not to implicate her age, understand?
(6) Be careful to joke
Of course, it's okay to joke with women, and there are familiar ways to joke with them, while those who are not familiar with them also have another set of methods. If it's some fun jokes, they can also have an excellent adjustment effect on the overall atmosphere of getting along. "But once a joke goes too far, the effect can be very bad, and your end may be tragic.". Therefore, it is necessary to be measured, carefully observe their reactions to you, and avoid being complacent, so as not to provoke their resentment and anger.
(7) , not sarcastic about body shape
Never, never, never, ever talk about a woman's weight! Even if a woman says she doesn't mind her weight, she still cares. "I would rather praise a woman with a good figure and a pleasant appearance than casually ridicule a woman with a poor figure.".
(8) , interested in her
Women hate men who treat them well while paying attention to other things. "They may wonder if they are completely unattractive to you, and then get worse as they think about it, feeling that you don't respect her at all.". Once you feel this way, you have already failed by more than half. For the other half, she will also doubt whether you only like her figure, so she's the reason to socialize with her!
(9) Don't be too straightforward
Don't be too frank with women, because women don't like to be too frank. Most of them like to talk with funny people, and sometimes even tit for tat in words, but they don't like those overly frank and explosive humor. So, in fact, all the witticisms don't have to be too clear. Let them spend a little time chewing what you say to guess the hidden meaning of your words, Then they will smile with complacency and understanding like guessing a riddle. Therefore, what you say in front of them must be implicit and playful, so that she will be happy to approach you.
(10) Try not to talk about "sex"
Unless you and they are already familiar enough to drink a glass of water together and have a clear understanding of each other, it is better not to mention anything obscene, no matter how slight, in front of a woman in the topic you are discussing with them. It is better to save it for sharing with your pig friend and dog friend! It is important to know that when women are talking to others, they also have a strong interest in all their personal affairs, including feelings, friends, and even marital issues. However, it should be made clear that it has nothing to do with sexual attitudes!
(11) May be flattered
Women prefer flattery to men. Because they like to listen to flattery and are accustomed to it, they are quite sensitive to flattery. For example, if you praise her for her beautiful tight dress, they may have heard it 300 times already, so even if they are still happy, the effect is not significant. But as long as you go further and say, "You're really looking good, you'll choose this blue skirt, which perfectly matches your figure!"! She will feel that your praise is full of authenticity, and your flattery is not like flattery. Her happiness is also from the heart!
Getting along requires skill, especially in conversation. As the saying goes, "A good word makes three winters warm, while a bad word hurts six months cold." In the process of picking up girls, you must avoid the dead spots of women.
