A certain frequency of sexual activity is the foundation for a successful pregnancy, but in clinical practice, many men experience sexual anxiety and even fear sexual activity when planning to have children, which affects marital relationships and fertility planning. Here are some of the most common sexual behaviors that make men "scared".
Fear of erectile problems. The biggest fear for men is not being able to stand up, but worrying itself can lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). Research shows that the impact of ED on fertility is not as severe as men imagine, and it is important to promptly investigate the cause of erectile problems.
Worried about not being able to satisfy the woman. There are significant differences in the sexual needs of men and women, and women whose sexual desires are never satisfied are only created in movies and TV dramas. For women, creating life with her can bring satisfaction in itself.
Concerns about penis size. Men usually believe that the size of the penis is a sign of masculinity. In fact, a woman's level of sexual satisfaction and likelihood of pregnancy are basically unrelated to penile size. Swedish doctors have also found that when evaluating male reproductive organs, women value their cleanliness and appearance more than their penis length.
Worries about the amount of sperm. In modern society, the quality of men's sperm is receiving increasing attention, and many men who are prepared for pregnancy may worry about insufficient sperm. In fact, sperm quality is more important. The sperm quality includes sperm motility, sperm morphology, etc. It can be detected by routine semen tests.
Worried about sexual fantasy. Many men may have some bold or even unconventional sexual thoughts, and they are worried that their partners will not accept these thoughts, and even feel that they are "abnormal". In fact, as long as both parties enjoy it, then this behavior is normal.