Men bear a lot of pressure. These pressures urge the man to keep struggling. As he grows older, he is no longer young physically or psychologically in middle age. If it is tiring to be a man, it is more tiring to be a man with burden. Men should learn these secrets when they understand life:
The secret script of "giving up" for men living in the world
1. Tear off the mask of the "strong":
In life, men always want to behave like "cowards" is their most intolerable comment. They may not know that this may shorten their life span. In fact, admitting that you are ordinary will not harm the dignity of men, but will help maintain the balance of mind.
2. Learn to "talk" to others:
When encountering difficulties, men either suppress the problems in their hearts or seek mental stimulation: excessive drinking, indulging in sex... These coping methods increase the chances of suffering from cancer, heart disease and other diseases. Men should learn to talk to their wives and friends.
3. Reexamine your life:
Many men think that if they lose their jobs, they will have no face to stand in the society, which creates invisible pressure. In fact, there are many choices in life.
4. Learn to "give up" properly:
In the real world, the general criterion to measure a man's success is whether his career is successful. However, this does not mean that you should always follow this standard. Temporarily leave the post to relax when sick; When the child is old, let go when it is time to let go. "Giving up" does not mean incompetence.
5. Keep your body at its best:
Men usually don't pay much attention to self-care. Even if they are ill, they also paralyze themselves with self-comfort. The best way to keep healthy is to go to the hospital for examination as soon as possible when you are ill.
6. Maintain harmonious family relations:
The most powerful support for men in life is usually their spouse. The disharmony of family relations often makes men trapped in internal and external affairs, and the impact on health is self-evident.
Men should not only be the "backbone" of the family, but also "mix up" in the fierce social competition. What attitude do men need to face these difficulties? Of course, men need to show a positive attitude towards life.