Post Date December, 03 2023
Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe explained "dullness" as the power of dullness - close to the meaning of tolerance and forgiveness in Chinese. If we can learn to deal with each other's problems "slowly" in our daily life, the relationship between husband and wife will be much better. If you are naturally sensitive, learn the "insensitive" skill that can make you happier.
● Don't always stare at him to squeeze toothpaste from the middle, and don't always remind him to keep quiet when eating
Some women are very picky about the details of their lives, and hope that their husbands can meet their own requirements of the code of conduct everywhere. For example, when they get home, they change clothes and wash their hands, but some men are naturally unwilling to follow these "rules". At this time, you should know that since the husband is so natural, it is better to just ignore it. Because no matter how you think about it, these small details can't affect your marriage - unless you are always so sensitive.
● It's not just a 90-minute game. It won't affect your life if you let him watch it
Whether it is the World Cup, the European Cup or the Asian Cup, after all, the ball game does not always happen. 90 minutes will soon pass. Why do you have to let your husband come back to you when he is in the highest mood? You will also have your own hobbies. Why ask your husband to give up the game?
● He talks and laughs with other women, which doesn't mean he will move on
If you are not sure that he has an affair, you should consider using "insensitive". Not every woman is ready to take your husband. There is no need to do everything.
● Even if you forget your wedding anniversary, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you
When men are careless and forgetful, they mostly expose their nature. Women should never equate such carelessness with indifference or indifference. You might as well ignore his forgetfulness as you ignore your own cautious eyes.
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● It is the most normal expression of family affection that she buys gifts for her mother and family
As a daughter, sister or sister, it is normal for her to spend some money for her parents, brothers and sisters. Even if it's a little more, it's just a sign that she loves her family too much, just like she loves you too much. If you can calmly accept that she spent 700 yuan to buy a jacket for you, why can't you treat her as calmly as buying gifts for her mother's family?
● Just because he swears occasionally doesn't mean he doesn't respect you
Speaking coarse words is not a matter of character, but perhaps just a habit he formed in his life. Just as a man of good manners can also become a criminal, a man who swears may not be morally corrupt. Especially when dealing with his wife, once in a while, it is not a directional swearing, but just one of his bad habits. It is no different from smoking and drinking. As long as it is not regular, you can ignore it.
● She likes to ponder the text messages in your mobile phone, but she wants to make herself more comfortable
She looks at your mobile phone, indicating that she is nervous about you, and intends to let you know that she is nervous. If you take this as a distrust of yourself and get angry, it can only show that you are guilty.
● Don't count on his small treasury. It's normal for a man to have private money
Generally speaking, men's private money is not very large. Whether it is for convenience or to be generous in front of others, it will not disturb the economic order of the family. Facts have proved that you can live well without that money. There is no need for wives to be suspicious, let alone behave like a shrewd accountant, trying to find out where each money is going.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
