That night, he was singing with his friends in the box with a loud voice.
Then the friend's mobile phone rang, and the friend followed up the phone with a strange expression,
Say, OK, he's here. I'll give it to him.
Then handed him the phone. It's a wife.
She said that she couldn't answer his phone and had to call her friend's mobile phone.
What can I do for you? He pressed down his anger and asked,
It's okay. I thought you had something wrong when you didn't answer the phone. I want to ask when you will be back.
If it's all right, go to bed first. He hung up,
A friend joked for a while. My wife really misses you. What secret makes my wife so nervous about you? Tell us.
He was humiliated by the good-natured jokes of everyone. Such a wife is really losing face.
That night, he shouted at her with the strength of wine, "I am a man and have my own life and privacy. Don't interfere casually. What right do you have?"? Then he rushed into the living room and slammed the door.
Yes, he is tired of such entanglement. Such entanglement, like a rubber band, always pulls himself, and he feels the pressing constraint a little farther away. This feeling makes him tired and tired. Slowly, he begins to have a rebellious mentality, and goes out to socialize more frequently.
When he asked for leave again, he changed from being cautious to being upright.
As soon as the symptom of her entanglement came out, he pressed it down.
After talking about having dinner with friends, there are too many friends to go. I can't say everyone's name again. Besides, I have agreed who will go, but there will be changes in the time. His cold words really make her a little restrained.
What time will you be back? Her voice also weakened.
Hey hey, he is secretly happy.
It's true. They say that marriage is a seesaw. When you come up, he will go down. Either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind. That's true. What time will you come back? It's impossible to say. Who knows what arrangements are made temporarily? You should have a rest early and don't wait for me to come back.
He came back later than before, and she still waited for him. In order to avoid her entanglement, he only poked his head at the bedroom door every time he came back and said, "I can't sleep this time. I will sleep in the study after reading a book.". Then he went into the study.
This kind of life makes him feel very relaxed. If he wants to go out for entertainment, he will go there. If he comes back late, he will be late. There will be no more entanglement, no more questioning, and the whole body is nimble. It is easier and easier. Later, he was more relaxed. He only sent a text message when he went out for entertainment. Tonight, I went out to dinner with my friends.
At first, my wife would call me and ask, "Are you going out for dinner again?"?
He immediately said impatiently, didn't he send a text message? Didn't you get it? What else are you asking?
I went out three times this week. The wife mumbled on the phone.
Well, I hang up. He doesn't give her a chance to ask. He was completely free. With a short message, everything was settled. Even if he spent the night outside with friends, he had no psychological burden.
On that day, several brothers made an appointment to go to the bath city to repair their feet after dinner. Later, they all fell asleep. When they woke up, the brothers in a box with him were busy changing clothes. The mobile phone held the phone with a look of panic. They kept saying to him, "It's broken, it's gone to sleep. Just after watching the mobile phone, my wife made eight phone calls and sent four text messages. I have to hurry back.".
He took out his mobile phone and saw that the screen was clean, there were no missed calls and no unread messages. At that moment, he suddenly felt a little frustrated. He felt that even if it was a missed call, even if it was not his wife's. Just thinking about it, the man's mobile phone rang again, and he heard him say, oh, oh, shall I go back and explain it to you? I'll be back right now. He asked, your wife's? The man said, except for his wife, who will call you without sleeping in the middle of the night.
Watching his brother go, he also dressed neatly and went home.
She has fallen asleep. After he dodged her by sleeping in the study, she gradually stopped waiting for him. He stood quietly at the door of the bedroom and heard her breathing sound. He suddenly wanted to wake her up and tell her that he had slept in the bath city and almost slept until dawn. With this thought, he pushed her beside the bed.
I'm back.
Oh,
She opened her eyes and answered.
I went to wash my feet with Wang Yong today,
Oh.
I almost slept there.
Oh, I see.
Then she turned and went back to sleep.
At that moment, he could not tell the taste of his heart. It was sour and hard to say, and there was also melancholy and loss. When there was a party, he began to call her again. I went out to dinner with my friends in the evening. got it.
He also wanted to tell her who was there, but she had hung up and she no longer cared about it,
Even if he wanted to say, she would not listen.
How could it be like this? Isn't she fond of pestering him? Why did she stop listening to him? When playing, his mood also changed. He used to want to turn off his cell phone and have a drink. Now he takes it out from time to time to have a look.
Every time someone's phone rings, he looks at the phone and says, "My wife's", and then goes out to answer the phone. He feels that the person is very happy. If someone cares about him, his weight and importance will be revealed, and he has not been bothered by his wife for a long time.
During this period, he was just eager to feel the happiness of freedom, but did not know that his estrangement from his wife also came with his freedom. To be exact, his wife alienated him, and now he has given up on the issues she once cared about, which is also a kind of interruption of emotional communication.
Yes, when he held his mobile phone and looked at the screen quietly and gloomily, he suddenly thought of the word "interrupt". The mobile phone was in his hand, but he lost his wife's signal.
He went out of the box and called his wife.
I'll be back soon. What are you doing?
Oh, I'm already asleep.
He hung up the phone bitterly, feeling melancholy.
At that time, he saw a man in the corridor covering his ear and shouting, "I won't drink much. I'm really with my college classmates. If I don't believe it, I can ask Wang Kai to answer the phone.". Ok, go home after dinner, don't sing or wash your feet. OK, can I promise to be home before eleven?
He couldn't help laughing. At both ends of the phone, one desperately explains and the other desperately entangles, which is a close force that connects and ties these two people together. How good it is to drag and run each other, because each other feels their existence, not empty, not lonely, ordinary couples, ordinary women, those days of oil smoke, is not because of these entanglements and taste?
For an ordinary wife, most of her attachment and needs to her husband are expressed through these entanglements.
How can we survive the entanglement of losing the closest person? After removing the entanglement, how much can an ordinary man and woman have? In an ordinary marriage, entanglement means being with you.
With this entanglement, let you know that I exist, let you know that I am in your life, you are in my day. He suddenly thought of this very philosophical sentence, and his eyes were covered with a mist at the same time. Although he has lost this intimate entanglement, he wants to start pestering his wife from now on, and continue to pester his wife until he is old.
This is love, when a woman no longer yells at you and makes noise at you. Be angry with you,
When she was silent, you really lost that indispensable position in her heart.
Even though she still loves you, some things have really changed. Entangled, seemingly annoying, is actually the happiest.
In the past, others pestered me. I would rather put the phone in the stereo and continue to play my own.
I didn't know until one day there were no more numerous phone calls and messages. She has given up.
Only then did I feel empty and regretful- Too much too much Words can no longer express
Please cherish the person who is angry with you, and cherish the person who nags you, because no one in this world is good to you except your parents. No one will care about you so much. Don't let you become a dispensable person from her heart. That's it.
Man, if you have a loving wife around you, please leave your best to her. Don't covet a moment of happiness and do something that makes you regret for life. After all, not every woman can accompany you without regret for so many years! Take care of you when you are old or sick,
It is not the children around us, or the servants who use money! The most likely is the woman who is always around you from young to old.
Be a man with principles, focus on career and family, and you are not far from success.