Post Date December, 03 2023
After falling in love with our wife for two years, we held a simple wedding in the dormitory of our employees and had our children the next year. No money, but very happy.
Later, under the pressure of life, with the help of several business classmates, I resigned and went to sea.
Opportunity combined with hard work made me make the real estate business bigger and bigger because I didn't want my wife to suffer, so I advised her to quit her job and go home to enjoy the happiness.
After my wife quit her job, I gave her half a year's permission to go sightseeing. During this period, my wife learned to be a black sheep, and at the same time, she also grew the desire for material.
My wife came back from traveling and became addicted to playing mahjong. At first, it would be hard to lose thousands of dollars when she came home. Later, she lost tens of thousands of dollars without blinking.
Although our life is very rich, I don't think we should spend our life in vain. However, if we don't let our wife play mahjong, we are afraid that she will suffer at home. At this time, I suddenly realized that it was a wrong decision to let her resign.
In order to make my wife's life meaningful, I suggested that she go to my company to manage accounts, but she was impatient with her work in the face of Ma You's temptation after less than a week.
After that, the wife continued her leisurely life.
Some time ago, I went to the nightclub with a group of brothers (my life is a little boring, I don't like all kinds of entertainment, except for the entertainment that can't be pushed away, and I would like to stay at home in the rest of the time. Although I come home from work, I usually can't see my wife, but my son speaks to me, and I also think the home is warm), one of the waiters may be too warm, He even said to me: "You are President Li, your sister Min is our favorite here. Many young boys here like her, and she is very generous with those boys." After hearing this, my heart was sore and sore, but due to face loss, I could only smile with frustration.
When I got home that night, my wife lay down and couldn't wake her up, but I didn't sleep all night. Thinking about our past and our present, I realized that it was me who materialized our marriage.
For the first time, I realized that I owe too much to my wife and children because of busy business these years. What I want to ask is, how can I make up?
Reply of China Sexual Health Network:
1、 Shed.
Human energy is limited. When your energy is tied up by business, it is difficult to spare more time to care for your wife and children. Although you don't like social entertainment, do you talk with your wife after you go home or watch TV quietly and then fall asleep? For this reason, I want to say to you that when you get something in life, you will inevitably lose something.
2、 Put it down.
Your career is basically on the right track now. There is no need to work too hard. Some things can be handed over to your subordinates. Many times it's not that we can't put it down, but that we don't want to put it down or don't want to put it down. Give yourself the courage to let go and spend half a year to adapt to your life after you let go. I believe you will find surprises.
3、 See through.
What you owe your wife and children now is your true feeling. When you hear that your wife is a nightclub celebrity, your jealousy is your concern for your wife. Why does your wife spend money for some boys younger than him? On the one hand, it shows that you are rich by spending money. On the other hand, it also shows the emptiness of your wife's heart. Life is very short, and perhaps kinship is more important than more money. If you can see through this, you can find the right direction in the future.
4、 Cherish.
Time is full of magic, which can destroy any solid but not treasured love. Now that we have found the problems in marriage, we should make up for them in time. Don't wait until your wife is really degraded one day to save it. I'm afraid it will be too late then. Leave more time for your family. Maybe they nag, but what they give you is absolutely the most selfless love.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
