In the happy country of love, there is only one. Everyone has different understanding of love because of their age and experience. The reason why I care is that I don't know how to be elegant. However, because you don't understand these things, men often keep them away. So today we will talk about how a small-minded woman can save her love.
First, learn to respect men
The reason why you are small-minded is that you always care too much about your feelings and ignore that men also have their own thoughts. Therefore, any attempt to manipulate a man is a self-inflicted trap. The most important practice of a person is to respect others, especially everyone around him. When you know how to respect others, you will know how to empathize. At this time, you will find that the more you transpose your thoughts, the more surprises you will reap. In the long run, you will form habits. Always think about things, so that things can be considered comprehensively, and you can avoid your own cognitive bias. When you learn to handle things reasonably and take care of men's feelings, you will learn to respect men.
Secondly, take the initiative to cultivate your elegance and flavor
As the saying goes, the belly is full of poetry. Reading has two functions: one is to get rid of self-righteous, and the other is to have an inner life. So you are not too small, but too little experience. Reading thousands of books, traveling thousands of miles and reading countless people can improve your vision and mind. Sometimes I feel that reading or experience seems as plain as water, but they all potentially precipitate into a person's temperament. This is reflected in a person's speech and mind, but also implied in life. Once you become knowledgeable, intelligent and interesting, men will begin to appreciate you. So to conquer men, we must first arouse their curiosity.
Third, we should have our own unique side
The reason why a person is small is that his world is too small. Therefore, when you encounter something, you will be angry and unhappy. Therefore, if you want to save your love, you must know how to enrich your life. You should know that if your world only revolves around men, your vision will be limited. So the best way is to start enriching yourself. No matter how old you are, once you realize that you want to change yourself, everything is still in time. So, you can practice from the things around you, let yourself learn to be grateful, learn to be moved, and learn to appreciate beautiful things. We should know how to give and give. In this way, we can warm others as well as ourselves. When your boyfriend realizes that you are not just a little woman, he will look at you with new eyes. Therefore, the most important thing to love someone is that they have their own unique side. And you have to find your own unique side.
If a small-minded woman wants to save her love, she must know how to improve herself. Every day is a special day, and change begins with self-adjustment. When you have your own uniqueness, taste and elegance, you will also reap the love you expect. Therefore, good recovery must begin with self-change.