Post Date December, 03 2023
To put it bluntly, men need warm women most, and are most afraid of women who are sharp and not tolerant enough. Mother's nagging, lover's pestering, wife's control, daughter's indulgence, girlfriend's arrogance, and female colleague's pickiness can all be men's nightmares. Therefore, men expect warm and soft tolerance from women. With this kind of tolerance, men will be complacent, but they are also easy to settle down and enjoy the so-called sense of achievement and the innate childishness. Men don't always need motivation.
Barbarian girls are still fresh and exciting for love, but 99% of men say they are not sensitive to their marriage. After all, we all have to live. Just imagine sleeping with a woman who can't move easily. That's more terrible than playing cards with Empress Dowager Cixi! When men smuggle emotions, they always like to say that there is a shrew in their family, but they have never heard a man say to his lover sadly, "Your wife is too gentle.". Unless he is really sick or weak.
Yang Guifei's dance and her language on the dragon bed are full of warmth; When Kangxi was annoyed by government affairs, he most wanted to talk to the woman named Rong Fei and drink a bowl of ice sugar lotus seed soup, which was gentle and warm... The Chinese emperor, who had hundreds of women, was most qualified to talk about what kind of women were the best. If it had to be summarized in one word, it would be "warm women".
A warm woman is not a traditional woman with small feet who only knows about victimization. She is healthy, she enjoys, and she is spoiled. At the same time, she will not cross her waist and scold the street, complain about others, nag, defend her husband like a thief, and scold her husband in front of outsiders... Warmness is not a kind of "good", but a kind of good temperament, which makes men comfortable and women more comfortable.
A warm woman may confiscate your cigarette, but she will also wake up at midnight to watch Beckham play football with you. "Sacrifice" is not her bible. To be a "good self" is her first accomplishment. She has the small kun bag of a small woman, the high-heeled shoes of a strong woman, and the noble forehead of a middle-class lady... She moves you with her body temperature and supports you with her soul.
Our past education seems to have missed such a lesson - how to be a charming and warm woman? We taught them how to be virtuous and introverted, which suppressed them; Later, we encouraged them to split the success map and career cake with men, but they were tired again... Only we didn't remind them to be sexy women with warm oriental charm, and please themselves and others.
