Post Date December, 03 2023
Compared with the woman who has worked hard for a long time and finally caught up with her, what men need to pay more attention to is the next process of your first date. Don't think that the woman agreed to go out with you, but if the first date process is messed up, Xiao Bian thinks that you two may not last long, at least it leaves a very bad impression on the woman, A good impression can make you have more next dates, but if you have done well in the following several times, it will certainly not disappoint women too much.
1、 If the appointment is late
Rush to the appointment place, pant to apologize to the other party, and then naturally find an excuse, such as "I jumped out of the car and ran over in a hurry on Zhongshan Road, which made me gasp for breath." or "I want to find a gift you like to give you, so that I can't catch up with the time..." In short, it should be reasonable to make it up, so that she can't realize that you are late due to your carelessness, which has nothing to do with what car or gift. This kind of promise helps to dispel the dissatisfaction of his girlfriend. The motive is good, and it can not be regarded as a malicious deception. However, such things as being late can't be repeated. If you tell too many lies, the stuffing will come out eventually.
2、 Diet Precautions
1. Take the initiative to invite her to dinner, because most girls don't want to say they are hungry.
2. Ask her what she wants to eat first. If she doesn't express her opinion, you can decide the menu yourself. Don't push around. If you think you are polite to the other party, it will actually embarrass the other party. When ordering food, be careful not to touch your teeth, because it will destroy the atmosphere.
3. Try not to make noise when eating. It is better to talk while eating.
4. You can eat freely. Girls usually like boys to have a strong appetite.
3、 Precautions for drinking
1. First date skills: Don't force your girlfriend to drink, which will make her unhappy, and she can refuse to date you again on the pretext that you force her to drink.
2. Don't pretend to be massive, whether you can or not.
3. If she drinks and blushes, you should praise her.
4、 Date Goodbye Etiquette
It is best to say goodbye to her at the appropriate station, wait with her until the train arrives, and then leave after she gets on and leaves. In this way, women will not feel that you are not tied tightly. If she is willing to let you take her home, it means that she has a little affinity for you. At this time, we must separate the time, that is, the first date should end when the girl still wants to get along with you. This is the best way to make her look forward to her next date. At the same time, you should use the following invitation techniques.
For example, when waiting for the bus, you asked her, "Today is the summer solstice. Do you know what the summer solstice means?" She said she didn't know, and then the bus came. You say, "Well, I'll tell you next time.". Repeat the time and place of the next time, and then take her on the bus. Or, when she was about to break up, she said, "I had a good evening with you.". You must immediately press the beginning and say, "That's great. I'll make you happier next time." Then repeat the time and place of the next appointment appropriately.
Love is a gradual process. It is also necessary to grasp the opportunity to hold the other party's hand. What if we can't wait for the opportunity? Then you should take a good look at this inventory of dating and holding hands with girls, because it is better to wait for opportunities passively than to create opportunities actively. Next, the editor of Men's World Network will teach you how to create opportunities to hold hands with girls.
The first move: pretend to be serious and inadvertently lead
For example, before meeting, set the mobile phone alarm clock to ring when two people are walking together. You can pretend to answer the phone and pretend to talk to the caller. Please pay attention to pretending to speak seriously and excitedly, so that the woman around you can think that you have ignored her. When talking excitedly, you can hold her hand at will when continuing to talk on the phone.
If a woman has a good feeling for you, she will always let you hold on. Even if you finish talking on the phone, she will still let you hold on. When you finish talking on the phone, you will continue to talk and laugh as if nothing had happened. If the woman doesn't like you, she will shake your hand,
You should think that you are too attentive to talk on the phone. If you are not careful, you will not be embarrassed.
The second move: deliberately find a dangerous time to do it for two people
For example, when dating, you deliberately do dangerous behaviors. For example, if there are low stairs, you can jump down first and then ask her to jump, but the girls are timid and dare not, so you can reach out and lead her down. Or when taking photos, find some tall rocks, hold her hand, climb up, and so on, or ring the doorbell of a stranger, and then lead her to escape together, or kick the garbage can, attracting attention. Can play freely. The key is to create dangerous scenes for you to face together. Don't let go when you get it. Try to hold it as long as you can.
Third move: act pitifully
For example, this is only used in winter: say that her hands are cold and keep rubbing them, and then ask her if her hands are cold. If she says it is not cold, can you pass some of the warmth on her hands? Without waiting for her reaction, she directly pulled it down. After holding it for a while, she could pull her hand together and put it in her clothes pocket. After holding it for a while, she tried to hold her fingers together. Then I sincerely asked her how long she could hold it? Can we lead a lifetime?
Fourth move: invite her to watch horror movies
How to do it: invite her to see a movie. It must be a scary movie. While watching, talk about what's scary, and then move your hand to catch it. After that, it can be changed into a heart to heart.
Fifth move: pretend to fight back
How to do it: Some girls like to have fingers to talk with her. They like to point at you. Then you can grab her hand at once and say, "I don't like people pointing at me like this.
Summary: When dating a woman for the first time, you should pay attention to the control of time. Even if you wait for her, you should try to shorten the time when she waits for you. Once you are late, you should say something about gifts or mainly about her to reduce her bad impression of you. But this is a kind lie, which should not appear many times. Take the initiative to talk about eating and giving the menu to the woman first. Don't force the woman to drink. When parting, you should skillfully use some invitation techniques to make it easy to date her next time but not abrupt, which can add points to the impression of women on you.
