Post Date December, 03 2023
In 2006, on Valentine's Day, a couple was grandly launched by the US cable television network (CNN). They were 102 year old husband Landis and 101 year old wife Gwen. On that day, they became news figures in the United States because they set a record in the United States, where the divorce demography was rising. Their marriage lasted for 78 years.
Wenger thought that they were the spokespersons for the book 'The Law of Happy Marriage'. So he contacted them through the news department. He quickly received their response: Yes! However, they need to read the manuscript first to avoid some fake marriage experts promoting their theories under their banner. And he advised the author to condense the book as they were already old eyed and had no energy to read the manuscript. According to instructions, Wenger simplified the 'Law of Happy Marriage' and summarized the 'One Principle', 'Three Laws', and' Five Consensus'.
Good person principle: Find a good person and be a good person yourself. Whoever can achieve this, marriage is difficult to be happy or not.
Madam's Law: First, Madam is always right; Article 2: If the wife is wrong, please refer to Article 1 for implementation.
Children's Law: Firstly, children are always children, and husbands are also children; Secondly, when your husband causes your dissatisfaction, please read the first article three times.
The Law of Family Property: Article 1: Except for a double bed, everything else is optional; The second point is that as the days get more complicated, please read the first point aloud together.
If both spouses can abide by these three laws, all marriage experts in the world will find another way out.
Five major consensuses: Both spouses should have such a consensus:
Love is tying two people together, marriage is tying a group of people together.
2. Marriage means killing the rich and helping the poor, and we cannot engage in egalitarianism in the control of money, let alone haggle over every detail.
Once there is a conflict between husband and wife, the more people come forward to persuade, the more difficult it is to resolve the conflict, and one must learn to self digest.
Marriage is a machine, and malfunctions are inevitable, which cannot be separated from daily debugging and maintenance.
Since the family is a hidden refuge, marriage should have the ability to hide and accept dirt.
Wenger? After Julie sent out the outline, he quickly received a reply from Mr. Landis. The letter reads as follows: Mr. Julie, I have read to my wife the rules of happy marriage you provided, and she almost didn't laugh to death. She said that it would be great if you had received your rule two days in advance, so that we could have avoided an argument with me yesterday.
However, she still asked me to express my gratitude to you here, and she said that she will follow suit in the future. Of course, she had no idea if it could work. Here, I would like to privately tell you something that my wife once said to me: "In this world, even the happiest marriage has two hundred thoughts of divorce and fifty thoughts of strangling each other in its lifetime
