Today's real life makes many friends have some fears about marriage. Everyone wants to have a lifetime of happiness, but the reality is very cruel. In fact, to have a happy marriage, we only need to know each other. As women, we must know what things, and can't force men to do with you.
These four things men don't want to do with women
First: shopping
Every woman loves beauty, so shopping is a great joy for every woman. Shopping can not only meet the needs of women, but also make women feel happy, but for most men, it is a kind of suffering and great torture. Scientific research has proved that when men go shopping with women, their blood pressure will increase significantly, occasionally causing chest tightness and dyspnea, which is one of the reasons why men do not want to go shopping.
It can be seen that shopping with women is the killer of men on the road of love.
The holiday should have been such a wonderful time, but it was wasted on meaningless bargaining. I was thirsty, tired and anxious. I often went shopping all day and didn't buy anything.
Women are very particular about choosing clothes. Generally, it is normal to try on a dress three or four times, and it is also necessary to ask this question. If you answer late as a boyfriend, she is not happy. If you deal with it casually, women say it is perfunctory. Many men think that every shopping is the precursor of a quarrel.
The second thing: drinking
Drinking and farting with friends is a way that many men like to relieve pressure. However, there are many women who don't understand this point. Every time they drink with friends, they have to drink with them. They don't want him to be with some good friends. They always think that it's bad for men to be together.
However, if women follow, men will not be free, and it is difficult to say something that can blow up. There are even some women who will try to find out the secret of the past in the face of the mob and try to embarrass the men. A good party can not relieve the pressure but increase the pressure.
Third: watching Korean dramas
To be honest, watching Korean dramas is the fear of many men. When women watch Korean dramas, the expression of crying and laughing is really frightening, and they will keep asking: If you were him, would you do the same to that woman? If we are old, will you treat me well?
Watching Korean dramas is what every girl likes to watch. She loves the handsome men, beautiful women and sad plots. So men can't hide from each other. They can't watch with each other. She asks and answers more questions. If she doesn't answer, she will be unhappy.
Fourth: Talking about parents
In addition to shopping, men and women talk about their parents together, which is also particularly easy to quarrel! Women always talk about their parents unconsciously, and both sides emphasize that their parents are better than each other's parents.
However, men can make concessions on many issues, but they will stick to it on their parents.
As a woman, parents-in-law are not their own parents after all. It is also difficult to say how good it is to treat parents-in-law intentionally, but in practice.
Therefore, women should try not to mention their parents' problems as much as possible, and it depends on the time, otherwise, it will be hard to please.