Post Date December, 03 2023
The relationship between money and love has confused generations before us, and will continue to psychologically perplex future generations.
I remember a sentence from Zhang Ailing to the effect that in order to obtain a woman's heart, we must first obtain her body. Therefore, when I got along with her soon, we cohabited. "I discovered earlier that she was not a virgin. Of course, finding a virgin these days is too difficult, and my thoughts are not too feudal and backward. Moreover, the important thing is now, not in the past, so we all stop mentioning this matter.".
During the first six months of cohabitation, we had a very good relationship, and I even thought we would live like this for a lifetime. However, gradually I realized that she was quite expensive and liked going to bars, shopping malls, and Haagen Dazs for coffee. After a long time, the two of them got into a fight. She always said I wouldn't buy her what she wanted, saying who bought what for whom, how much it cost, where they took who to play, and how much it cost. This sounds awkward. I spend almost 2000 yuan per month on living expenses. Generally, I only spend a fraction of it, and almost all the rest is given to her. As a student, I don't have a job. This level should be considered acceptable. It's all "gnawing old", and there's no need to make life so luxurious.
Gradually, she became more and more indifferent to me. Last week, she argued to break up with me, saying that she had fallen in love with a married husband. Although she was not as good-looking as me, she spent much more money than I did.
I was very angry and asked what else could she see except money in her eyes? She sneered and said that a woman's youth is only a few years old, and if she doesn't enjoy it when she has the money, she will become a yellow faced woman with me, and it will be her turn to enjoy it. "I said that she was not a virgin at the beginning, she was just a flirtatious girl. Upon hearing this, she became angry and broke something. Pointing to my nose, she said, 'She lived with me for half a year, and I picked a big bargain. She suffered enough, saying that I was okay to blame her here.'".
"I'm so angry that if living with me is a loss for her, then living with her is also a loss for me!"! "Her eyes flashed and she said, 'If a girl lives with a man, she suffers a loss. If a man takes advantage, she suffers a loss. If she lives with me, she suffers a loss. It's already cheaper for me not to ask for a breakup fee.'".
"I don't understand. When I first cohabited, she was afraid that I would say she wasn't a virgin and accuse me of being out of date. I didn't care.". But now, when it's time to break up, she's using the words "losing money with me" to explain things. After paying so much money and energy, but being beaten by an old man, who is at the disadvantage?
