For male friends, marriage is crucial. Because whether a marriage is happy or not directly affects whether male friends can work hard without worries in the workplace. To have a happy marriage, male friends need to straighten out their psychology and eliminate some potential marital hazards. So what are the hidden dangers of marriage that men need to eliminate? Let's follow the editor to learn more.
The first type: The hidden danger of "flash marriage" highlights.
Flash marriage has become a common phenomenon, and one must quickly run to the Civil Affairs Bureau after falling in love at first sight, obtain a "driver's license", but go straight on the road without breaking in. On the way, problems arise because of the disharmony between their personalities or hobbies, lifestyles, and other issues, resulting in this marriage causing two people to suffer.
The second kind: the distance between husband and wife keeps widening.
There is a inherent gap between men and women, such as when women like Romantic, men like Normandy; Women like fashion, while men like models who wear fashion. For couples, differences in life interests, value orientations, hobbies, and other aspects can not only make their world more colorful, but also precisely conform to the "complementarity" rule.
The third kind: Couple life is less romantic and less interesting.
The love between husband and wife is ultimately going to deteriorate, evolving from a beautiful and romantic love to a kinship of flesh and blood. This is because marriage is actually longer than love. Therefore, under this tangible marriage, the emotional life is in a "tired" state, there is no longer "innovation", and has become thick and hard lines in the oil, salt, firewood, and rice.
Fourth, sexual disharmony.
Sex is the lubricant in marriage, and a harmonious married life can make both people rosy and energetic. Conversely, marriage can have major problems. Often, sex between a husband and wife becomes a duty for two people, and each time it is as tedious as a routine. The lubricant has lost its effect, and the chariot of marriage is bound to have some kind of problem. This kind of hidden danger is very important!
The fifth kind: Busy day makes love dull.
Note that here is "love" rather than "love". Love only manifests itself so prominently when it comes to falling in love with each other, and once in marriage, "love" is even more important. Don't ignore the concern for each other because of your busy day. Caring and caring for each other and giving love to the other half anytime and anywhere is the fundamental to a happy and lasting life for a couple.
Through the above introduction, everyone should have a preliminary understanding. In fact, the happiness of marriage cannot be separated from the mutual support and care of two people. I hope that all husband and wife friends can have a happy marriage life.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)