Men are afraid of green hats
In fact, from a psychological point of view, this is a "sense of insecurity" hidden in men's hearts. Let's call it "green hat phobia". This "instability" is to fear what happens to his wife behind his back. Research shows that women trust their husbands more than men trust their wives. This is consistent with real life - men can drink and play mahjong all night long, and then coax women away, while men often do not like this to women.
Sexual behavior is exclusive psychology
If you have sex, you will inevitably leave a large amount of secretions on your underwear. The husband's "virginity detection method" is straightforward. The secretions become the substitute of his distrust mentality, forming a psychological circle of secretions "=" cheating.
There is also a typical behavior of "suspected wife" - showing a strong aversion to the men around his wife. Colleagues, classmates, friends and even relatives, as long as they are men, get along more frequently, especially when the wife has more opportunities to mention them, put him on the "blacklist", carry the blacklist, accumulate depression and become a green hat phobia, and spend time studying and arranging the contact frequency, site and time between his wife and these suspicious objects, Being on high alert and alert for a long time, I always feel that there is such a thing, but I can't grasp it.
The extension of virgin complex
There are many reasons for the formation of this distrust, but it can be summed up into several types: First, because of the virgin complex, the wife is suspected to be wrong when getting married, or it is very clear that she is not her first lover; The second is the remarried couple, both of whom have a marriage history and have different degrees of re-loving experience; The third is the inferiority complex. This situation is usually caused by the extroverted character of the woman, who is much more popular than the man in her career and work, and the phenomenon that women are stronger than men; Fourth, hearsay, troubled by special examples around