Post Date December, 03 2023
Some things men must do before marriage. Men always want to get married, and not only because human beings develop in this way, but also because we also need partners who share weal and woe. A man should prepare these ten things before marriage. After experiencing these ten things, a man can shake off the dust of desire on his body, just like crossing a threshold, and the next road can go more smoothly
1. There should be units:
Many inspirational articles say that as long as you insist on doing your work well, your work can become your career. In fact, as long as a man has a unit, that is to say, an organization that can "manage" you can. Even those who set up stalls on the street should have a "reputation" in the community. This is the basis of a man's foothold. Having an organization does not mean having a backer, but in the eyes of outsiders, a man with an organization is trustworthy.
2. Have a certain amount of deposit:
Of course, it's good to be able to buy a car and buy a car. But this is not what all men can do. At the very least, the money earned by labor can be held in other aspects besides meeting the needs of survival. Besides, there must be some savings. It doesn't matter whether ten thousand yuan or one million yuan. The important thing is that men have a deep heart and can give themselves room for manoeuvre.
3. Go through a setback:
This is very important. Men mature because of frustration, and therefore can better recognize themselves. This kind of frustration includes business and emotional failures, such as being framed, slandered, abandoned by a lover, betrayed by a friend, etc., but there must be a "degree". The so-called "degree" means that a man can stand up and start again after experiencing this kind of frustration.
4. Have taken a relationship seriously:
Don't envy those playboys who change women like shoes. The love on the spot just makes you waste time and energy. The most painful thing for a person is not that he can't find a lover, but that he has no love in his heart. When you turn the three words "I love you" into the most easy sentence for you to say, then you can hardly find true happiness in the world of love.
5. Understand that love is not marriage:
Men think that as long as there is sex, there is love, while women think that love is equal to marriage. Therefore, men would rather believe that love is false than suspect the hypocrisy of sex. The reason why many marriages fail is that most people are not able to really grasp it, so they learn to act according to their abilities.
Health.com reminds you that after these things, men can shake off the dust of desire, just like stepping over a threshold, and the next way can be smoother and more natural.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
