For both men and women, a complete wedding is happy. Men have an obligation to make women happy, but it is often male friends who cheat. If a male friend wants a divorce, their behavior will unintentionally manifest in their life, and the following four major behaviors indicate that a man wants a divorce.
1. Saying in front of family and friends that there is no emotion
Most men have extramarital affairs after marriage or when their wives do not give their husbands gentleness in marriage, their husbands will promptly release harsh words in front of family and friends: "He is not good to my parents, we argue every day, we cannot communicate with him, we have been in a cold war for a long time," and so on, implying that you may "divorce" such a situation, and on the day of the real divorce, Everyone will say it's because you haven't been a good wife. You never imagined that it was your once beloved husband who stabbed you in the back.
2. Being indifferent to you without warmth
For women, a husband should be someone who cares about us every detail and can complain and share life's troubles with us. However, when you see a husband anxious or indifferent to us, unless he is very sophisticated, he must have done something wrong or disappointed in you. Perhaps he was just in a moment of emotional turmoil, so when it's not time to give up, you can say to him, "Should we talk? Although you said it's okay, I believe there must be something wrong with us, otherwise you wouldn't do this to me
3. I am very good at pretending to be poor and finding faults in life
A man who has cheated is quite selfish, especially when he wants to build a love nest with another man. He will pretend to be poor in his family. If he is a businessman, he will say that business is not good this year, and if he works as a worker, he will say that the company's efficiency is not good, and there is no bonus this year. Anyway, it is how poor he comes from, so that you can identify with him as a poor boy in your heart. This way, even if it is a divorce, He won't have much loss either.
If the couple is providing the building, they will let you provide it yourself, whether it's rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, children going to school, elderly people getting sick, etc. They will use a series of abnormalities to maximize their iron rooster face, anyway, they just don't want to extract a drop of oil and water from him.
Another thing is that he will start to dislike the saltiness of your cooking, fade your hair and fly all over the house, and even get angry with you. This will achieve his goal, because he will smoothly withdraw from your relationship along this step.
4. Often citing overtime as a reason for staying up late at night
Most men will "study" marriage laws after infidelity, and they use what they have learned to skillfully divorce. The most typical example is that they will seize the "legal divorce for those who have been separated for two years due to emotional discord" clause in the marriage law and either stay overnight for a long time or move elsewhere or even leave the city to work, and so on. As long as they have made up their minds, they will do so.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)