1. Developing ambiguous relationships
Men are not satisfied, eating from the bowl and looking at the pot. No matter how well their wives do, they still believe that their wives are not perfect enough, or that others' wives are better. So they will carry women behind their backs to develop some ambiguous relationships, possibly between colleagues or friends.
Although men have those thoughts of infidelity, many men have a lecherous heart but no lecherous courage. Having the courage to take action is just a fleeting indulgence, and they still want a complete family in their hearts. So, many times, men only carry women behind their backs and use their phones or QQ to say ambiguous things to other girls.
Many men have their own "beauty confidants" who do not tell their wives when they have concerns, but can chat endlessly with other members of the opposite sex.
2. Miss your ex girlfriend
My ex girlfriend is a pain in the hearts of women and is seen as a rival in love. Many men will say that they have no connection with their ex girlfriend. But just think about it, no one can erase all the memories of the past. After a disagreement between the two, he will quietly miss his ex girlfriend and compare them to you.
Men never only fall in love once, and they always miss their former women occasionally. Some even go too far and keep pestering their ex girlfriend without telling themselves.
3. Saving private money
Men become bad when they have money, so many women won't let men have enough money. The money earned by men through hard work must be handed over to women for safekeeping or used by one person to earn money for two people. Women all adhere to a principle: yours is mine, mine is mine.
However, men need money to socialize and develop some ambiguous relationships. So, many men want to secretly keep some money that women don't know about. Only by keeping private money can men's private space become larger and larger.
4. Engaging in an affair
If a man tells you he only loves you for a lifetime, then he is definitely lying to you. In this society, people believe that the red flag at home does not fall, and it is rare for men with colorful flags floating outside. So, many men are willing to challenge themselves and try their abilities to see if they can handle the relationship between two women at home and outside.
Men all hope to have three wives and four concubines, so they will carry the woman behind their back to develop another relationship and seek a romantic affair. The so-called male search for a spouse is innate, and there are always many men who, even after having a great woman, have the idea of having an affair. Of course, this is something that women should not know, so you must be vigilant.
5. Find a beautiful confidant
When you are in love, you find that you have nothing to say between you; But after getting married, you will find that there are fewer common topics between you. You talk about you, he plays with him, and there is no intersection.
Men feel that the women at home are too nagging, talking about trivial things, and they don't know what they're thinking inside. So men need to find a beautiful confidant who can listen to themselves and speak out regardless of good or bad things, becoming their own spiritual trash can. She will listen quietly and give some relevant opinions when necessary, unlike the women in the family who are endless.
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)